Going through psychological issues after i found out

PrincessLuXLu · 08-10-2003, 10:18 PM

Hi, my name is Lucy and I am having extreme psychological issues after
I found out my boyfriend looked at porn. I seem to not be thinking straight and seem to have an identity problem. I think i might be going crazy. Everything I feel is depression, sadness, and confusion. By identity problems meaning I think insane thoughts of being not me, but truly somebody unnattractive. Am I going crazy?

MIKEDSF · 08-10-2003, 10:31 PM

hi, i dont mean to be blunt but you are crzy if your upset that you bf was watching porn, every single guy in the world watches porn, its only human. so dont worry about it, and dont be mad at your bf, unless he decides he wants to be in a poro!!!

PrincessLuXLu · 08-10-2003, 10:37 PM

My problem is not mainly that, it's the weird thoughts I have and believing them that scares me. I am having crazy thoughts that I am not me. It just started recently. I am scaring myself because I think I might be going crazy.

WorkingThruIt · 08-11-2003, 03:35 AM

if your problem is your personal feelings about yourself, as I understadn from your post, then it really has nothing to do with your bf looking at pornography right? It sounds like you have some other situation in your life causing yuo stress, and maybe you are trying to deny and/or supress it, and it is coming out in other ways? This is just a guess, but I would suggest you sit down and analyze these feelings, and what the cause or root of the feelings are? Perhaps you might be able to talk with someone about it? A best friend? A teacher/coworker/counselor/family member, someone you trust, and maybe by just talking to that person you wil be able to see the situation from an outside point of view and it will help you come up with your own conclusion and plan of action. I hope things work out for you...

babycristy456 · 08-13-2003, 02:16 PM

I had something similar happen to me after an event that took place. I was messing around with the Ouiji board and after that day, I had experienced physchological issues. I thought i was seeing ghosts, I thought any strangers I ran into might be evil or a ghost. I was seriously scaring myself. I even started to believe that I am possessed and might be someone else. I was also having paranoia. I started to have extreme anxiety for a couple of weeks, having panic attacks as well. And sleepless night. I even believed I was starting to hallucinate. I was out of control and so was my mind.

That's was my experience but read the PM i sent you. It gets more into details and may help you.

08-10-2003, 10:18 PM	#1
PrincessLuXLu Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: New York Posts: 19	Going through psychological issues after i found out Hi, my name is Lucy and I am having extreme psychological issues after I found out my boyfriend looked at porn. I seem to not be thinking straight and seem to have an identity problem. I think i might be going crazy. Everything I feel is depression, sadness, and confusion. By identity problems meaning I think insane thoughts of being not me, but truly somebody unnattractive. Am I going crazy?

08-10-2003, 10:37 PM	#3
PrincessLuXLu Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: New York Posts: 19	Me again My problem is not mainly that, it's the weird thoughts I have and believing them that scares me. I am having crazy thoughts that I am not me. It just started recently. I am scaring myself because I think I might be going crazy.

08-11-2003, 03:35 AM	#4
WorkingThruIt Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 55	if your problem is your personal feelings about yourself, as I understadn from your post, then it really has nothing to do with your bf looking at pornography right? It sounds like you have some other situation in your life causing yuo stress, and maybe you are trying to deny and/or supress it, and it is coming out in other ways? This is just a guess, but I would suggest you sit down and analyze these feelings, and what the cause or root of the feelings are? Perhaps you might be able to talk with someone about it? A best friend? A teacher/coworker/counselor/family member, someone you trust, and maybe by just talking to that person you wil be able to see the situation from an outside point of view and it will help you come up with your own conclusion and plan of action. I hope things work out for you... __________________ Nothing is for certain!

08-13-2003, 02:16 PM	#5
babycristy456 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: FL, USA Posts: 471	similar... I had something similar happen to me after an event that took place. I was messing around with the Ouiji board and after that day, I had experienced physchological issues. I thought i was seeing ghosts, I thought any strangers I ran into might be evil or a ghost. I was seriously scaring myself. I even started to believe that I am possessed and might be someone else. I was also having paranoia. I started to have extreme anxiety for a couple of weeks, having panic attacks as well. And sleepless night. I even believed I was starting to hallucinate. I was out of control and so was my mind. That's was my experience but read the PM i sent you. It gets more into details and may help you. __________________ "The hottest place in hell are reserved for those who stay neutral in the face of injustices." Dante

08-10-2003, 10:31 PM	#2
MIKEDSF Offline Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: SOMEWHERE ON THIS SICK PLANET Posts: 23	hi, i dont mean to be blunt but you are crzy if your upset that you bf was watching porn, every single guy in the world watches porn, its only human. so dont worry about it, and dont be mad at your bf, unless he decides he wants to be in a poro!!!