help - my dad has cancer

i am eleanor rigby · 11-30-2002, 07:57 PM

oh my god my dad has cancer what am i gonna do im gonna die HELP!

LUCY · 12-01-2002, 08:38 AM

HI. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, MY MUM HAD CANCER BUT SHE WAS UNLUCKY AND SHE DIED WHEN I WAS 3. THE PAIN HAS NEVER GONE AWAY. EVEN THOUGH I WAS 3 I NEW WHAT WAS GOING ON AND I WAS SO UNHAPPY, YOUR DAD WILL BE FINE MY GRANDAD HAD CANCER AS WELL AND HE IS STILL ALIVE (CANCER RUNS IN OUR FAMILY, ON BOTH SIDES) YOU HAVE TO STAY STRONG.

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Jason R. · 04-29-2003, 11:55 PM

My dad has cancer and i find it hard to be his friend sometimes because we are different in many ways, sometimes he cant sleep cause of Kemo and he goes to the beach(his almost favorite place) but when the balls on my court i dont really like the beach, i was born in michigan. not really a beach type of person but anyway, there are many ways to cope with your dads being sick and i, only being 14 have tried everyone of them and to tell you the truth telling the world the that its a hellhole doesnt really help, try to spend time with him and weather it sounds stupid or not tell yourself that it will all workout and it will, seriously you dont have to believe very much but it will.

meggie.marie · 03-20-2009, 03:23 AM

hi jason, i am pretty sure being 14 sucks no matter what, but when your dad is sick it sure doesn't help! hey...i'm not much of a beachgoer either, (my skin is practically trasluscent) but i think you can probably find something to like about it. once your dad is gone you'll never get him back. have you gone to see a counsellor about your situation? i think it could really help...don't just let them drug you up, though, it seems like you just need to talk to someone neutral to the situation. good luck, man. i'm pulling for you. megan

thejigsup · 03-25-2009, 01:44 AM

You don't like the beach???? I'm a California girl, it's almost a religion here. I don't mind, the beach is beautiful! There is nothing better than the sound of the surf! Go to the beach with your father, enjoy it with him.

11-30-2002, 07:57 PM	#1
i am eleanor rigby Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: This hellhole called earth Posts: 7	help - my dad has cancer oh my god my dad has cancer what am i gonna do im gonna die HELP! __________________ Ah, look at all the lonely people Yes Im Lonely wanna die --The Beatles

12-01-2002, 08:38 AM	#2
LUCY Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 5	CANCER HI. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, MY MUM HAD CANCER BUT SHE WAS UNLUCKY AND SHE DIED WHEN I WAS 3. THE PAIN HAS NEVER GONE AWAY. EVEN THOUGH I WAS 3 I NEW WHAT WAS GOING ON AND I WAS SO UNHAPPY, YOUR DAD WILL BE FINE MY GRANDAD HAD CANCER AS WELL AND HE IS STILL ALIVE (CANCER RUNS IN OUR FAMILY, ON BOTH SIDES) YOU HAVE TO STAY STRONG. XX

04-29-2003, 11:55 PM	#3
Jason R. Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ormond beach florida Posts: 1	I know how you feel!!! and it sucks!!! My dad has cancer and i find it hard to be his friend sometimes because we are different in many ways, sometimes he cant sleep cause of Kemo and he goes to the beach(his almost favorite place) but when the balls on my court i dont really like the beach, i was born in michigan. not really a beach type of person but anyway, there are many ways to cope with your dads being sick and i, only being 14 have tried everyone of them and to tell you the truth telling the world the that its a hellhole doesnt really help, try to spend time with him and weather it sounds stupid or not tell yourself that it will all workout and it will, seriously you dont have to believe very much but it will. __________________ My name is jason ralston, I am 14 years old and i have just lost both my grandfathers and my dad has inoperable cancer and we moved to florida 4 1/2 years ago and i still dont fit in.

03-20-2009, 03:23 AM	#4
meggie.marie Offline Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: St. Paul, MN Gender: Female Posts: 1	hi jason, i am pretty sure being 14 sucks no matter what, but when your dad is sick it sure doesn't help! hey...i'm not much of a beachgoer either, (my skin is practically trasluscent) but i think you can probably find something to like about it. once your dad is gone you'll never get him back. have you gone to see a counsellor about your situation? i think it could really help...don't just let them drug you up, though, it seems like you just need to talk to someone neutral to the situation. good luck, man. i'm pulling for you. megan

03-25-2009, 01:44 AM	#5
thejigsup Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Gender: Female Age: 53 Posts: 4,126	You don't like the beach???? I'm a California girl, it's almost a religion here. I don't mind, the beach is beautiful! There is nothing better than the sound of the surf! Go to the beach with your father, enjoy it with him.