young and apprehensive

koala_bear · 06-25-2002, 09:47 PM

i have a g/f...my 1st. and have never done anything with a girl! i know i should probably wait a while longer but i really like her and i dont think i can retain myself anymore. what are a womans most sensitive spots...other than the obvious. any other advice.

DesperateDan · 12-28-2002, 02:52 PM

First off, I don't know how old are you, you need to be mature enough to have sex, and that doesn't just mean over the legal age. When you are ready you will know what to do. However, I will continue. The act of sex should flow, you have to turn her on, not agree to "do it" and stick a date in the diary, although this can be done. If you literally have done nothing at all, kiss her, kiss her neck, the more you do the more comfortable you feel doing more, and you will learn by yourself, after all, every woman is different. (in my opinion, a blokes opinion, the knees and elbows are not exactly key sensitive areas of women I have been with, good starting areas are the kneck and shoulders, ears, boobs and inner thighs, feet- yes but many women are self concious about the smell of their feet or are very ticklish and will prefer you not to go near them, you also want to maintain good eye contact and read your partners face.

06-25-2002, 09:47 PM	#1
koala_bear Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1	young and apprehensive i have a g/f...my 1st. and have never done anything with a girl! i know i should probably wait a while longer but i really like her and i dont think i can retain myself anymore. what are a womans most sensitive spots...other than the obvious. any other advice.

12-28-2002, 02:52 PM	#2
DesperateDan Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3	Re: young and apprehensive First off, I don't know how old are you, you need to be mature enough to have sex, and that doesn't just mean over the legal age. When you are ready you will know what to do. However, I will continue. The act of sex should flow, you have to turn her on, not agree to "do it" and stick a date in the diary, although this can be done. If you literally have done nothing at all, kiss her, kiss her neck, the more you do the more comfortable you feel doing more, and you will learn by yourself, after all, every woman is different. (in my opinion, a blokes opinion, the knees and elbows are not exactly key sensitive areas of women I have been with, good starting areas are the kneck and shoulders, ears, boobs and inner thighs, feet- yes but many women are self concious about the smell of their feet or are very ticklish and will prefer you not to go near them, you also want to maintain good eye contact and read your partners face.