Ex and sex

I heard my ex has slept with somebody else and he has kept asking me for sex one last time?! What is the logic to this? Because I don't understand why he would be asking if he's getting it elsewhere

Because he is thinking he can get some from you and from someone else.

Logic has nothing to do with sex

He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Ignore him.

Who ended things in your relationship?

Why wouldn't he? As long as he's single, he can have as many f*ck buddies as he wants, so he doesn't see anything wrong with trying. It's up to you to decide whether you can have casual sex with him, or pass.

I don't suppose he would ask if he thought he didn't stand a chance.

Try not to read into it. .It's nothing as complex as you may want it to be.

He's testing you . .that's all..

He'll happily take all he can get.

Because sex is brilliant and he enjoys it with you

Because sometimes it dawns on people, "Wait, I'm free and single, but she/he still digs me enough to maybe sleep with me. And I am free to date around and maybe I can get someone else to sleep with me too. Woohoo, I can have sex with multiple people and even if the new people say no the ex probably won't. I am so going to try this."

And so yeah, they try. That's because it's all about sex, not love. Don't confuse the two, because if he's an ex then presumably he doesn't love you enough to want a relationship with you. But that isn't going to stop him wanting sex with you.

He's a horn dog sniffing around to see how many will have him. Tell him to go sniff around someone else and to leave you alone because he ain't gettin' any from you anymore now that he's your ex.

He plans to have sex with you both then congratulate himself on what a stud he is.

It's not because he still loves you.

Besides, didn't you say on another thread that the two of you were texting back and forth about sex? So if you're giving him indications you would have sex with him he probably figures why not get some from you?

No he was indicating sex on my other thread I wasn't having any of it which is when he stopped but then he tried again a few days later and so on. It's like a pattern. He will pop in on me for a few days then ignore me for a few etc! It's driving me nuts sometimes because we were together for 5 years and he's so lovey Dovey one minute to do unemotional the next and treats me like a knotch on his bed post!