toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 We see each other once a week for 6 months. He canceled a date in April, and he texted me after that every week to say hi, but he never reschedule another date. Is he waiting me to suggest meeting up again? Or he is just happy not being with me? I love him and he knows, I do what he likes, but very little appreciation. I didn't initial contact after that day. Thanks for input and help! Link to comment
mhowe Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 I would stop responding to texts and let it go. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 i'm under the impression that he's either lost interest or met someone else. he still texts you to keep you around in the background, but he's probably seeing where things go with her or the other women. sorry if i'm pessimistic here. I'm not getting a really positive vibe after 6 months of dating and only seeing each other once a week, and then the communication suddenly dropped off. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 I love him and he knows, I do what he likes, but very little appreciation. He's not interested. The lack of appreciation tells you all you need to know. I'd skip returning contact. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 I would stop responding to texts and let it go. Thanks for help! So hard....but thanks for point right direction! Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 No way to make a person like you, even I have tried hard. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 I am sorry that I have to admit that I am hoping his return. After that day, I started to find help and read some info online, I noticed that I have made almost every mistake the website says not to, I have chasing him. I didn't contact him after that day because I was hoping to get his attention. The last text he sent, he asked if I have new one, I said no. We never got into argument because I compromise, even after that day. I did return his every text after a while, in the same day, with normal every day chat. Again, thanks for helping me at the tough time! I have fighting the feeling of him, still couldn't let it go. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 i'm under the impression that he's either lost interest or met someone else. he still texts you to keep you around in the background, but he's probably seeing where things go with her or the other women. sorry if i'm pessimistic here. I'm not getting a really positive vibe after 6 months of dating and only seeing each other once a week, and then the communication suddenly dropped off. No way to make a person like you, even I have tried hard. Link to comment
No1 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 You are too available and not a challenge, he can have you anytime he wants and he is not into that. If you want him to miss you, then he has to see a life without you. You are too much of a doormat, too easy, too available. He knows you love him and that's what scares him because he doesn't feel the same about you. Link to comment
LLCBOS Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 After 6 months, he's just not that into to you. Sorry. Find someone who is. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Thanks! I learned what I did wrong after that day, after reading all the dating tips. Never thought about loving someone needs so much knowledge. When you love someone, everything follows naturally, and I didn't realized I stepped into the game. Link to comment
mhowe Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Lol. That is like saying walking or riding a bike "comes naturally". They don't...they take skill and practice and are much easier if someone gives you some pointers. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Lol. That is like saying walking or riding a bike "comes naturally". They don't...they take skill and practice and are much easier if someone gives you some pointers. Lol, I have learned a lot since that day and I am aware of those mistakes, from this point of view, I thank him for the lesson. His place does seem to have other girl's stuff when the last time I was there. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 After 6 months, he's just not that into to you. Sorry. Find someone who is. Thanks for the comfort! It is hard to make yourself not to like someone when you do. I hope I would have ending for my story soon. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Almost text him today, I am glad I didn't. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 Lol, I have learned a lot since that day and I am aware of those mistakes, from this point of view, I thank him for the lesson. His place does seem to have other girl's stuff when the last time I was there. doesn't seem Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 My lingerie is still in his place. 1. Do I ask to pick it up when he texts me next time or I text him? 2. Wait for a couple months late, then text him to pick it up? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 yeah. that's how i feel too. i'd rather buy something new and fresh for use with the next guy. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 Thanks Mhowe for answering my every questions! Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 yeah. that's how i feel too. i'd rather buy something new and fresh for use with the next guy. lol, thanks! I will try to be happy again. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 9, 2015 Author Share Posted May 9, 2015 I feel better every day, it is easy when you feel he doesn't like you. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 9, 2015 Author Share Posted May 9, 2015 He hasn't contacted me since 9 days ago, it is easier that he doesn't want to talk to me than for me to not to respond to his text. I am maybe still weak, but it is easy for me to remind myself that he doesn't like me. I respect his decision and his feeling. Love is base on mutual feeling. The lucky thing in the life is you love someone and he loves you back. Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 11, 2015 Author Share Posted May 11, 2015 He text me, omg, if he could dumped me completely would be easy for me. I of course liked to see him everyday during that 6 months, but he only likes once a week. I like to text with him everyday, but he only text back once a day, so I stopped text him everyday. I have tried so hard. I like to have him back, and also like to pick up those broken pieces of my pride. Could anyone share your thoughts with me? Link to comment
toolovehim Posted May 11, 2015 Author Share Posted May 11, 2015 1st month we met 7 times. 2nd month: 6 3nd month: 5 4th month: 4 5th month: 3 6th month: 1, he cancelled the 2nd date. I please him on or off the bed, we have common interests, I respect him and he knows. Link to comment
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