may I tell you my view on sex and what is important ...
the most amazing experiences sex wise I have ever had where born out of pure love , not status ., and it was with the man I came here about . Because I loved him , every inch of him , when he took my face and kissed me it didnt matter if he
had slept with 200 women prior to me ..I wouldnt know , I dont ask these questions ...because it didnt matter anyway .
I loved what he was about , how he made me feel , his voice , his mind , his conversation , his laugh , the things we did together ..that all came first the beautiful love you feel for another ...thats like foreplay in all honesty .
so it stood to reason than when we united in sex/making love , whatever you want to call it ...then the joy and fulfilment where so electric and so charged with passion that nothing else mattered .
I hope you can sort your head out with all this stuff because you sound like a good guy x