This will sound silly or stupid to most people but I usually have difficulty guessing what it means when a guy (who I'm not dating yet) asks me if I want to come over to his place. Does he most likely have sex in mind?
With my most recent ex, nothing happened the first time I went to his place (not even kissing). But some guys seem to think agreeing to go to his place = agreeing to have sex.
Would it be insulting if I went to his place and didn't let him touch me? Should I never say yes if I'm not ready to have sex with him? If so, what's a good way to turn his offer down gently when he asks if I want to watch a movie or do whatever at his place?