I’ll try to keep this as short as possible...
So this girl that I’ve known for about 5 years now has come back to town for the summer and we’ve been hanging out occasionally until she leaves for school again this Sunday. We’ve never been really good friends but we have hung out before (after senior year of high school), but haven’t really talked while we were both away at school for the last 4 years. Anyways, she has a boyfriend who lives away from her now that they both graduated with the from undergraduate school. We have this flirty thing going on and I cannot tell if it is just because she is very flirty (which she is) or that she is interested. She is drop dead gorgeous and I know she thinks I am attractive as she has said it numerous times, but I am still doubting whether I have a chance. Obviously I wouldn’t do anything since she has a boyfriend, but here is where it gets interesting… The other night we met some friends downtown and she picked up so we went there together (back as well). On the way home she was going to call her boyfriend to see if he got home okay (he just flew back home that day from visiting) but she got the 2 ring reject and exclaimed, “See, this is why I need to be single.” I just laughed. Then she carried on about how she is doubting their relationship even though it has been perfect and she could see herself marrying him one day. She said she has never really been single and that if she’s ever wanted to “make out with a random person," she couldn't This is after we have joked about us making out a few times. She is far from a s*** as she has only been with two people. After her little rant I just laughed and said, “I’m not having this conversation with you.” I wasn’t going to get in the middle of their relationship. She said , "why not?!" I eventually opened up and told her that once these feeling start, it is pretty much a snowball effect, unfortunately. It is inevitable now. Then as we passed by the apartment complex I will be moving into next month (currently living with parents), I pointed out that I was moving there soon. Then she said, “Can I sleep over when I come visit home?” to which I replied, “of course, I will put an air mattress in the closet for you,” while grinning. All these signs are really making it seem like I have a chance of kissing her in the near future, but I just don’t know what’s going on in her head. Are girls ever THAT flirty when they have no interest??
So when we got to my house, we talked for a few more minutes but then I said, “okay, I’m going to go….I don’t want to be a home wrecker.” She said, “yeah, don’t do that (meaning bei a home wrecker)” as I got out of the car.
So what do you guys think? Could she just be playing games? One of the only reasons I could see us not kissing eventually is that I am 6’0” and she is 6’2” :O haha