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I am a 22 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl. My penis is a pathetic 4.75-5 inch length and 4 inch girth. It seems so pathetic to me to be a grown 22 year old man and have the penis of a 14 year old boy. I do not see the point in living life anymore with such a cursed handicap. I hate myself more then words can express for being so inadequate sexually.

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dude my bf's 5 inch penis is more than satisfying. its not a handicap at all. my bestfriend has had sex with tons of men and she said the best sex was also with a 5 inch penis. she sampled at least 20 diff penis. size isn't that important. vaginas are not giantic caves. they expand according to need.

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You again.

 

Question. Why did you bother opening up a thread on the EXACT SAME THING when you got plenty of support in the other thread?

 

You already got plenty of responses to make you feel better/reassured in the other thread. Deal with it. A 5 inch penis isn't life ending.

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Confused Virgin:

 

Firstly, your penis will be just fine! In fact, you'd be surprised at the number of men who have less than fulfilling sex lives because they are too large (unable to completely thrust w/out hurting their partner) and are limited in the positions that are comfortable for their partners.

 

Secondly, I suspect there are many young women (I say young because I'm in my fifties) who would really enjoy introducing you to physical intimacy.

 

Thirdly and most importantly, please see a physician or counselor sooner rather than later. Hating yourself isn't the way to go, and although it may be scary opening up to someone about this, please, please do so. You don't need to continue suffering, really. I wish you well. D

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dude my bf's 5 inch penis is more than satisfying. its not a handicap at all. my bestfriend has had sex with tons of men and she said the best sex was also with a 5 inch penis. she sampled at least 20 diff penis. size isn't that important. vaginas are not giantic caves. they expand according to need.

 

He has experience. He knows how to work it....I don't....and the first girl I meet that likes me I am going to look like a fool and her attraction will be gone in an instant. I am a worthless man-boy. your BF is also probably much much thicker in girth...mine is a pathetic 4. I honestly just want to die. I can't even look at myself in a mirror anymore. I pray for a cancer that is headed for a child every night because I am so worthless.

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I am a 22 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl. My penis is a pathetic 4.75-5 inch length and 4 inch girth. It seems so pathetic to me to be a grown 22 year old man and have the penis of a 14 year old boy. I do not see the point in living life anymore with such a cursed handicap. I hate myself more then words can express for being so inadequate sexually.

 

 

Ok, you're posting more of the same, you get ridiculous amounts of advice AND support. It obviously isn't sinking in, therefore I think it's time you considered talking to a therapist. Much love to you and yours.

 

You also haven't even had sex with anyone yet and you're working yourself up into a stupor on what if's, its counterproductive.

 

p.s. jsut PMed you.

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Confused Virgin:

 

Firstly, your penis will be just fine! In fact, you'd be surprised at the number of men who have less than fulfilling sex lives because they are too large (unable to completely thrust w/out hurting their partner) and are limited in the positions that are comfortable for their partners.

 

Secondly, I suspect there are many young women (I say young because I'm in my fifties) who would really enjoy introducing you to physical intimacy.

 

Thirdly and most importantly, please see a physician or counselor sooner rather than later. Hating yourself isn't the way to go, and although it may be scary opening up to someone about this, please, please do so. You don't need to continue suffering, really. I wish you well. D

 

I'm not over here wishing for some monster penis. Just the average 6 and average girth would do. don't worry I won't be suffering much longer.

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Phalloplasty but the downfall is when you get hard it won't be erect as normal but will get erect towards the ground. It's possible to alter your penis there are just consequences to it. Discovery channel, there is some condition where guys are born with an inverted penis so you could have it much worse. I'd say you should quit sulking and own it.

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First of all, QUIT calling it a handicap. It's an INSULT to those who have an handicap. This is a victim mentality you keep working on, and it is not attractive. See a therapist. And I completely agree with camus. Over and over, same advice by people who know better than you, are more informed or educated and know what it's like on the women's side of things but you're so focused on the victim mentality. See a therapist. What you have is AVERAGE. It's getting a little annoying of seeing the same thing with the same attitude from you. We can't give you what you want, whatever it is. It's unrealistic because your perspective is jarred.

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With all due respect, this is completely and unnecessarily over the top.

 

As a gay dude, a lot of women seem to feel comfortable opening up to me about their sex life. None of them, not once, has even hinted at being disappointed over sex with a so-called "too-small" penis. Plenty of them have told me about how they had to break up with someone, or refuse to have sex with them, because they were too big.

 

And yes, some of those guys I happen to know for a fact were hovering around the 5 inch mark.

 

Frankly speaking, the way you seem to dwell and obsess over this, torturing yourself about your self-diagnosed small size and constantly ignoring ALL evidence to the contrary (abundant evidence too), hints at the fact that you are kinda enjoying this at some level. The self-flagellation, the humiliation... Small Penis Humiliation Fetish is an actual thing: link removed ... and it might just be the key to what's really going on with you.

 

If that's the case, it's simply a matter of being open and honest with yourself, and harness it for pleasure and joy.

 

There is absolutely no reason why you should be miserable over your equipment.

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How is that a sexual handicap? You can still get an erection, you can have sex so no you do not have a handicap and it is offensive to people that do. It is quite offensive to me because i cannot have sex without extreme pain and discomfort so i would have a 'sexual handicap' more than you. But would i kill myself over it? No i wouldnt because life isnt about sex. Do you think i should kill myself because i cant have sex?

 

You really need therapy because you will not accept anyones advise.

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Stop evading my question, OP.

 

I want to know what you hope to gain from this thread that you clearly did not gain from the other.

 

what do i want to gain? some peace of mind maybe by getting some stuff off my chest. i might go crazy if i have to walk around another day pretending im ok when really im thinking about the best way to go

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First of all, QUIT calling it a handicap. It's an INSULT to those who have an handicap. This is a victim mentality you keep working on, and it is not attractive. See a therapist. And I completely agree with camus. Over and over, same advice by people who know better than you, are more informed or educated and know what it's like on the women's side of things but you're so focused on the victim mentality. See a therapist. What you have is AVERAGE. It's getting a little annoying of seeing the same thing with the same attitude from you. We can't give you what you want, whatever it is. It's unrealistic because your perspective is jarred.

 

I agree. You are NOT disabled. Not even close.

 

And two, there is ZERO wrong with your body.

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First of all, QUIT calling it a handicap. It's an INSULT to those who have an handicap. This is a victim mentality you keep working on, and it is not attractive. See a therapist. And I completely agree with camus. Over and over, same advice by people who know better than you, are more informed or educated and know what it's like on the women's side of things but you're so focused on the victim mentality. See a therapist. What you have is AVERAGE. It's getting a little annoying of seeing the same thing with the same attitude from you. We can't give you what you want, whatever it is. It's unrealistic because your perspective is jarred.

 

I agree. Assuming the OP is not trolling, it's probably a form of body dysmorphia. Therapy is likely the best option, especially if there are thoughts of suicide.

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People are dying all over the world, children will go hungry tonite, people are homeless and jobless. Diseases are rampant, people can't get proper medical care, etc etc. Those are the ones that I suspect would feel severe despair and would think it's better to leave this planet. You have nothing wrong with you other than a penis that you feel isn't sufficient but really don't even know because you haven't or won't try. Forgive me if I sound harsh but I have followed your numerous threads and everyone hear has given you such tremendous words of encouragement and wisdom and you still shoot them down.

 

So now that I am pretty shocked that you think life isn't worth living because you aren't John Holmes, let me share my story that I really didn't want to get into on a public forum but I'm not embarrased by any means and maybe it will help you to see that life isn't all that bad.

 

Me and the bf together for almost 8 years, he smaller than average which was fine with me but due to medical conditions (hypertension and kidney failure) are not able to have sex. We haven't had full penetrative sex EVER in the almost 8 years that we have been together. Did I ever want to leave him because of this, NO. Have I ever considered cheating on him? NO

 

Does he feel bad about it? I'm sure he does but that just made us get creative and I'll tell you what, I am super satisfied. He satisfies me in a way that no has been able too and that is because we had to make up for what we don't have. Life doesn't need to end because you aren't satisified with your own stuff. Life is not a big old porn movie. There are genuinely women out there that don't sweat the small stuff, NO PUN INTENDED.

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I'm 7 inches and quite thick...Especially for a thin man....I wish you luck dude....Maybe learn how to play guitar....Or lighten up and not look at every woman like an opening...

 

 

Seriously,I've known guys way smaller than you(childhood friends),that went on to meet the love's of their lives and have been with them for many years...

 

Maybe learn drums....

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^ I don't get what the point of announcing your length and girth was. Congratulations, you have a penis.

 

OP, it makes me sad when people post about feeling inadequate. The BEST SEX I ever had was with a guy who, on a good day, was lucky to hit the smaller side of average. The majority of people who are impressed by big wangs are other men. There might be some size queens out there but for the most part, they're way more concerned over whether they're going to find a good and kind man.

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