...when the fear of family discovering the relationship sets in? OR when they (the Indian) are about to marry/ talking about marriage with family, I guess? I'm just trying to gain perspective since I've gone through this as of a couple days ago. No, I'm not contacting him- haven't spoke to him in days because he needs the space evidently. Apparently he's going through a "personal crisis" and needs "mental and personal rebuilding" Of course, when he's in the same city he'll talk to me, but when he's with family- I'm forgotten completely with no explanation.
I won't post my situation in here, go read the thread if you'd like. But, I'm just wondering. Is it REALLY that "Holiday in Goa" type thing? Or do real feelings ever change their minds?
Any input is greatly appreciated!