Its been a while since I've been on here, but not too long ago I met two guys on different occasions/times who I thought were potential guys I would like to get to know. They flirt with me all the time and because these guys are not exactly the type of men I usually go for physically/mentally I was interested in getting to know them as well. Well both guys asked me out, but never followed through? I'm not sure why? I feel a little pathetic writing this on here? Why ask a woman out and not follow through? You mind as well not ask her at all. I'm confused and kind of hurt, maybe its getting close to valentines day and some of these guys don't want nothing to do with me or the holiday lol? I'm trying really hard to move on, but it bugs me sometimes. Its like I'm not sure I can trust anyone who ever asks me out again. I'm not sure why people think its funny to flirt with someone and ask them out then don't follow through. Just save me the heartache and don't lead me on at least. One of the guys even asked my sister for suggestions of places to take me out to dinner?
Nobody deserves to be stood up, not even men.
The question is why? Why lead her on, ask her out, and stand her up like a dumb-idiot. Why do you stand a woman up?