I'm noticing a pattern of 'friends' and sometimes family members ignoring me on facebook(want friendship advice)?
When I send a message or post on peoples wall, people hardly respond and never talk to me.. I do is say “Hi how are you doing” 'or wish them Happy Holidays' and that I suppose gets old after so many times.
My cousin who was like a sister to me,heck,I was there when she was born if that matters. she keeps posting but ignoring comments I make. Furthermore dont barrage her with comments. Still she hardly responds. I feel as though she does this for attention,and she gets it!.
However when I post music and stuff on my wall,I might as well post to myself.
I ended up 'unsuscribing' to her updates because this is just ridiculous. The same goes with so call 'friends' too.
I'm not saying people have to be in constant contact with me, of course not that would be self centered to think that, peoples lives don't revolve around others but...for people to just never talk to me at all...just hurts.
So how I need to fix it? I thought about backing off for a while and not talking to people,even blocked a few very unresponsive 'friends',though its still fustrating. Has anyone ever went through the same thing?
I really dont see the big deal now about FB,its just a clique,I think,any advice