Ok so very long story short, I have an ex girlfriend who I still talk to daily and who I may get back together with in the future.
We live a few hours away from each other at this point, because I go to university.
She may come to this city though soon.
Anyways, I often get jealous at things she does, sometimes reasonably, other times not.
Jealousy for me is the worst emotion to have. I absolutely despise it and could live a far better life without it.
So I'm trying to care less about things that she does.
She was texting me yesterday after a night going out with her friends, and wanted to skype, which is very unusual.
I asked her what she had done the night before and she said she went with her friends to her friends boyfriends house who also lives with a guy she slept with over the summer. There was her and 3 of her girlfriends, how many other people I don't know.
So I responded sort of sarcastically, but then let it go. She continued to persist asking what was up with my text and if I was mad etc. Almost as if she wanted me to be angry. I didn;t answer her and I didn't have time to skype because I was going out.
Anyways, this morning I texted her saying good morning etc. At this point I'm going to post our conversation so you guys can get a judge of how she is acting.
She responded back saying "Are you mad I went to John's?"
MEo you want to skype now?
HER:I have to go to work soon
ME: Lol okay. When do you work until?
HER: 6 30. Can you answer my question?
ME: No. Do you want me to be mad lol..?
HER: No but after I told you you sent me loool yeah. Then when i said what you ignored me for an hour and continued to dodge the question.
ME: Well is there anything I should be mad about?
HER: No. He has a new girlfriend and the only reason i went was cause it was the only way we could all see each other (her 4 female friends) I don't think I even talked to him minus when we went out for a smoke and had a spit race
ME: Lol. So then there's nothing to be mad about. Relax.
HER: Yeah well you normally get mad whenever I hang out with someone who's male
ME: Lol okay well I'm not mad so idk what the problem is.
She hasn't replied yet.
Does it not sound like she's dissapointed that I'm not angry?
It almost feels as if she wanted to bait me into getting angry considering she usually dosent put this much effort into texting or ever wanting to skype.
I mean, when I asked if there was anything to be mad about she could have simply said no. Instead she brings up the he has a new girlfriend line, their "spit race", going for a smoke, etc.
I'll admit, usually this type of thing would make me super jealous and angry, and perhaps Im a bit jealous or suspicious now, but im tired of letting it effect me and letting her weigh me down so..
Anyways, any thoughts on why/if she's trying to make me jealous?