This question just popped into my head, well actually, when I was sitting on the beach last week reading books on "how to heal my life" or something along those lines.
I keep reading all of these threads on the whole NC concept, initiating NO, breaking NC and I just have to ask: if a woman breaks up with a man for cheating/lying/all of that good BS, do the men try to reach out? If they do, is it to apologize, to gloat, to string her along, etc.?
I'm on day 20 of NC and I broke it off with the POS yet, I can't help but wonder these petty thoughts, "why haven't you reached out to apologize?"
Petty I know but I'm just curious to hear what others think...
p.s. Cancun was beautiful but only a temporary band-aid outside of reality.