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    My girlfriend wants DPd

    I didn't make a big deal out of it.Because I overreact easily, but my girlfriend just told me she'd like to be double penetrated by me and another guy. I mean I know she's not gonna go out and find 2 random guys to do it with because I said absolutely not. I dont know should I even be mad that she asked that? Well actualy she didnt ask to do it, she just said she'd like it.

    She's very sexual and said she'd enjoy a threesome too. I just cant let another being be sexual or intimate towards her in any way but me.

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    They sell attachments that will give her the feeling of two very in sync men. Look on Amazon.

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    Maybe its her fantasy. What about incorporating a dildo in the mix?
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    We can try that I suppose. But then I'll just think in my head that she wants a real dingdong instead of a dildo . idk alot of thoughts go in my head. The first thing that popped in my head was shes not satisfied with sex with me only, the next thing was is she gonna cheat, the third thing was why wuld she want anyone elses dingdong if not mine? I guess I'm insecure about everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohioboy View Post
    We can try that I suppose. But then I'll just think in my head that she wants a real dingdong instead of a dildo . idk alot of thoughts go in my head. The first thing that popped in my head was shes not satisfied with sex with me only, the next thing was is she gonna cheat, the third thing was why wuld she want anyone elses dingdong if not mine? I guess I'm insecure about everything.
    Yeah I wouldn't think to much of it, unless she says she is going to act on it. Try the attachments out and see if that satisfies her wants.

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    I hope that works

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohioboy View Post
    We can try that I suppose. But then I'll just think in my head that she wants a real dingdong instead of a dildo . idk alot of thoughts go in my head. The first thing that popped in my head was shes not satisfied with sex with me only, the next thing was is she gonna cheat, the third thing was why wuld she want anyone elses dingdong if not mine? I guess I'm insecure about everything.
    Dude, you're way over-thinking this.

    My ex and I did the "real + vibe" DP (more than once), and she was very happy with the experience. That didn't mean she actually wanted two guys slamming her, because that just wasn't gonna happen.

    Relax and deliver for your lady!
    So here I go,
    I'm still scratching around the the same old hole.
    My body feels young,
    But my mind is very old.

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    Hmm. I do think that playing with toys might give some of the experience, but it remains that she's said that she wants to bring another man into the situation. You're obviously not comfortable with that- can you handle knowing that it's something she wants?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat973 View Post
    Hmm. I do think that playing with toys might give some of the experience, but it remains that she's said that she wants to bring another man into the situation. You're obviously not comfortable with that- can you handle knowing that it's something she wants?
    It's a fantasy until you act on it. I'm sure you fantasize about things from time to time, she is just more open.

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    You dont have to comply with her request, it is something that she simply is interested in trying.
    "A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong gives it the superficial appearance of being right, and raises at first a formidable outcry in defense of custom. But the tumult soon subsides. Time makes more converts than reason." Thomas Paine

    "The wise man questions others wisdom because he questions his own, the foolish man because it is different from his own." Leo Stein

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