I've been dating him for 3 months. I am 24 years old my boyfriend is 26. My boyfriend last spoke to me on june 7 at night, we got into an argument. The argument was over his time, he told me doesnt have time and wasnt responding to my texts but would write on his friends wall on facebook. I was fine after he explained but he got a bit angry and said that i always argue with him. so he said its done, he doesnt want a relationship not with me, with no one! Then I told him that what he was doing was unfair and i didnt deserve this. So, after a couple of minutes he told me, how about you just chill and i will do the same, think about the relationship, see if this is what you want and i will do the same. We are still together we are not broken up, just taking some time to think. We will give wednesday a break, and meet thursday to talk about our relationship.sweet dreams goodnight and that was it.
came around he didn't text me or call me, so I texted him, whats the plan? Are we still meeting up? NO ANSWER so i called him a couple of more times no answer- so i finally texted him I guess you werent ready to meet today or were just tired and fell asleep please call me or text me in the morning, so i know your okay, sweet dreams goodnight. The next morning he didnt reply NOTHING ! I was a bit shocked and worried. Then I realized he was okay and just ignoring me, so
I texted him, ok i think you need more space, i will let you call me when your ready, because i think i texted and called you more then enough. I care for please dont stress over this i know you already have a lot going on,dont worry i got your back. I will be here and I know you will talk to me when your ready. I left it at that
Saturday - no contact, and he didnt contact me at all !
Sunday- I texted him saying" I know you are and will be busy, but i think we can both work this out if we want too, You just have to be clear with me and i will be clear too, I dont want to give up just because one of us got a bit busy. If u want to work this out let me know now because you left a bit unclear ? NO ANSWER i texted him again, i have feelings too, i worry too, i have a heart too, helllo ? NO ANSWER i didnt contact him until around 10 pm I called him around 4 times, left him a message saying, Hi, i dont know if your okay or not, I hope your okay, if your done with this relationship or need space, you need to let me know you dont even have to call me just text me.
I saw his car was parked so i went up to his door to confront him, no answer, i texted him, i'm outside your door, he did not open his door, but when i called his phone was off, i still called about 5 times and then i just gave up
Tuesday- No contact from me, and nothing from him
Wednesday- No contact from me, and nothing from him
and today No contact from me, and nothing from him
So after Monday, I decided to stop contacting him, enough was enough. If he really cared about me he will come around!
I just dont understand why he left without saying anything or tricking me. He told me we are not broken up but we did not meet on thursday. He wont even text me back or call me back to let me know if hes done, or just needs space ! I have not contacted him since tuesday and i was hoping that would give me my answer but he still has made no effort to talk. Do you think hes done and is just going to ignore me until I stop because he doesnt want to deal with break up drama, or is he wanting space because he is confused and he'll come around when hes ready?