Ok, I'm curious to know if people think my husband and my best friend are crossing the line. About a year ago my husband and I met another couple who became our mutual best friends. All four of us are new to this town (as of a year ago) and don't have any family nearby. After we met we started spending a lot of time together, and now we probably see them 6 days a week and have them over at our house for dinner four nights a week. Even though we are all friends the girl has become my best friend and same situation with her fiance and my husband.
My husband is a great guy and I don't think he is attracted to my friend or is looking for anything of a sexual nature, but he knows she finds him attractive (she told me and I told him). The other night they were both sitting next to each other on the couch and resting their bare feet on the same foot rest. The thing that I have a problem with is that they were sitting there with their feet touching. I can't tell if I'm paranoid and this is no big deal, or if it is ok that I am feeling uncomfortable with the situation. I also think that I am a little upset because every night they come over for dinner my husband always sits in his same spot on the couch, my friends fiance sits across from him in lazy boy chair, and while I am always the last one in the room because I am doing the dishes my friend always runs in and sits next to my husband on the couch. I don't want to be paranoid and ruin our friendship, but my feelings are hurt. When I talked to my husband about it he called me crazy and said I was delusional. HELP