im_the_undead Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 but doesn't smile or look happy. lol i haven't "flirtted" intentionally in a verrry long time and i honestly don't notice when someone is interested in me or whether they think i'm hella weird or something... but i have been noticing this guy staring at me any instant that we may be near each other. it's not like a friendly stare.. i'd say it either looks frightened, suspicious, or like a "what the crap?" look idk i want to ask him his name, but then again he walks too fast so it's hard to catch up with him hahaha it simply irks me that he stares and says nothing for long periods of time.. i used to look down or away but now i stare him in the eye to make him feel as uncomfortable as i did lol. wonder what he's thinking.......... guys, any idea? my friend says he wants to kill me. hahaha D: Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Say hello! Or just be like 'Erm is there something on my face!?!' not in a mean way lol, maybe it'll break the ice? Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted March 31, 2011 Author Share Posted March 31, 2011 lol should i wave? he's always a bit far from me Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 Yeah lol! Wave and mouth hello? Just someting to break the ice! If he still acts weird, at least you tried Link to comment
JoeCool Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 Well I can honestly say he's probably very attracted to you. I mean why would he constantly stare at you if he didn't like you in that way. He's probably shy, maybe you should talk to him and break the ice.. Link to comment
Happens4aReason Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 He is interested in you but he is shy to take the first step.. IF you don't mind this character in guys, then why dont you go and tell him a hi? Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted March 31, 2011 Author Share Posted March 31, 2011 i'm scared hahaha... i ran into him at our church gym and i literally hid behind some stairs. two shy people, greeeat. anyway, i think i'll wave........ what's the worst he can say? lol Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted March 31, 2011 Author Share Posted March 31, 2011 i chickened out lol Link to comment
corvidae Posted April 1, 2011 Share Posted April 1, 2011 He is interested in you. I do the same to a very attractive girl at work; I always hope she'll smile but she never does. Link to comment
MrWallFlower Posted April 2, 2011 Share Posted April 2, 2011 It sounds more to me like he doesn't like you. Otherwise, if he was interested, he would try to sit closer to you or would smile. If he was shy then he would be uncomfortable with you staring back at him. If he can stare at you and look you in the eye--he is definitely not scared of you. I'm with your friends on this one. Link to comment
Le MX5 Posted April 2, 2011 Share Posted April 2, 2011 He's definitely shy, especially since he knows that you know he stares at you Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted April 3, 2011 Author Share Posted April 3, 2011 so i hyped myself up to approach and eventaully talk to him... epic fail -.- i didn't see him look up at me so i walked straight ahead WHY is this so difficult ? lol Link to comment
Snowy Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 so i hyped myself up to approach and eventaully talk to him... epic fail -.- i didn't see him look up at me so i walked straight ahead WHY is this so difficult ? lol LOL aww. just approach the next time he stares at you haha Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted April 3, 2011 Author Share Posted April 3, 2011 HAHAA i feel so pathetic! okay you guys, i need some serious pep talks/ TIPS! lol Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted April 3, 2011 Author Share Posted April 3, 2011 It sounds more to me like he doesn't like you. Otherwise, if he was interested, he would try to sit closer to you or would smile. If he was shy then he would be uncomfortable with you staring back at him. If he can stare at you and look you in the eye--he is definitely not scared of you. I'm with your friends on this one. OMG you think he wants to kill me?!?? HAHAHA that's messed up but anyway i do the same exact thing to him...... stare, nevery smile..... don't go near him and yet, i find him easy on the eyes so, if he were to ask would you tell him "She wants to kill you man" ? Link to comment
aprilgoddess Posted April 5, 2011 Share Posted April 5, 2011 OMG you think he wants to kill me?!?? HAHAHA that's messed up but anyway i do the same exact thing to him...... stare, nevery smile..... don't go near him and yet, i find him easy on the eyes so, if he were to ask would you tell him "She wants to kill you man" ? sigh! same same same situation... my crush and I stare at each other all the time..and yet we have NEVER spoken to each other.. I am shy but I wish he would approach me... Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted April 5, 2011 Author Share Posted April 5, 2011 sigh! same same same situation... my crush and I stare at each other all the time..and yet we have NEVER spoken to each other.. I am shy but I wish he would approach me... we need to come up with a plan. lol Link to comment
Snowy Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 Go up to him and ask for his name and then introduce yourself. He'll blush and you can go from there. e.g. you could ask him how long he's been going to that gym etc. Link to comment
FrogIsFree Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 I reckon he fancies you - a lot! - but has very intense feelings or is studying you, so he doesn't realise his stare doesn't look friendly.. Lol! Link to comment
putter65 Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 He is interested in you. I do the same to a very attractive girl at work; I always hope she'll smile but she never does. Why don't you smile at her ? Or say 'hi' or go upto to her and ask her something ? Women are always smiling at me. And I haven't got a great deal going for me looks wise. Link to comment
corvidae Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Yo...make eye contact and smile. Repeat until a converstation starts up naturally. Link to comment
Jaydedgirl Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 i chickened out lol Haha omg i also chicken out with my crush.. he stares at me alot and we make eye contact but he smiles and ill smile back. Just recently he started waving and ill wave back. But we have never spoken ever Im way too shy and i guess he is too.. plus i havent seen him at gym for 2 weeks,i hope he hasnt left Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 well, today....was a huge let down. i was used to him starring at me everyday it seems like he tries really hard not to now and when he does it feels like he tries to ignore me... fail looks like it's time to get over it. awhh maaaan, just when i started to feel like a had a crush again! Link to comment
Snowy Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 well, today....was a huge let down. i was used to him starring at me everyday it seems like he tries really hard not to now and when he does it feels like he tries to ignore me... fail looks like it's time to get over it. awhh maaaan, just when i started to feel like a had a crush again! Lol. He could be shy. Link to comment
CorpseGrinder Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 If the person is staring at you everyday like that, then they might be a bit of a nut....you know, the kind of nut that says "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again" Link to comment
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