I feel over him. I fell for him hard and fast and he dumped me out of nowhere, and I think that's why I took it so hard at first. But I've moved on.
But what I want to know is why do guys, who seemed so bent on getting you and so crazy about you, insist on wanting to be friends after they dump you? I've heard that line tons before but my ex and I had numerous discussions about whether we should get back together or not because he really did care for me and didn't want to imagine a life without me. He kept insisting that I was the only girl he ever dated that he would be really upset if I started hating on him.
Because I was all heartbroken and still missed him, I used to text and email him a bit to see how we was. But lately, I've stopped because I really don't feel like I care how he is and have moved on. Since I've stopped contacting him - it's been two or three weeks - he's started texting ME constantly to see how I am, ask about my life, ask if we can still hang out as friends, etc. He even asked if I was still designing his tattoo and painting him some stuff, which I obviously said I wasn't.
It's just weird. We hang out with some of the same people but we weren't good friends before, and I see of no reason why we should be friends now. So how come as soon as I move on with my life and start being happy, he feels the need to make contact?