Why is she acting this way?

To make a long story short, I had a short romance with one of my coworkers, she bailed out on me a couple of times, and I decided to call it off.

Since then, when I see her at work I act like nothing happen,by being friendly etc...

However , she is extremely nervous around me, like she cant look at me in the eyes when she talks.

I have noticed that she talks a lot with everyone else but me, but when we are in group she gives me flirty looks.

Why is she acting like that?

Any clues?

Thanks

Because she is uncomfortable since she had been involved with you. You did the right thing by calling it off - a woman who is available and interested won't bail on you.

Ok I agree, but why those flirty looks when in group? she keeps looking for my eyes very often..

Because she wants you to ask her out so she can do it again.

What would be her point?

Also why would she feels uncomfortable around me? Is that possible that she feels guilty?

Maybe she feels guilty, and embrassed. That makes sense.

So what should I do about it Sapphire?

You could say 'Hey, no hard feelings about what happened and I'd like tos tay friends?' Pop her a quick text or email like that?

I dont know if being friends would be a good idea, Im kinda still attracted to her..

But obviously thats a no go isnt it, if she bailed, you called it off. Then maybe you could just try and be civil or just say 'no hard feelings about what happened, lets keep it civil, Or if you want to try again, let her know.

I have considering asking her out again, whats the best way to do it without sounding desperate? ( even though Im not)

Just say 'Hey do you fancy going out again' or 'fancy trying meeting up again'

I wouldn't take the flirting as a sign that she wants to go out with you. But I would take the fact that she didn't go out with you when she could of as a pretty good indicator that she's not interested. Many women flirt with no intentions or desire to take it further. That would also explain her keeping her distance and not making eye contact when she's closer to you. Just my take on it.

Conserning you asking her out again, how long has it been since she bailed on you?

Its been two weeks since she bailed out on me, Is it too soon to ask her out again?

I have been in another date with a different girl since then, But there is something about her that I like..

Maybe I should ask her why is she acting this way??

You could just invite her for a coffee, have a chat, see how she feels on the matter you know?

I would not ask her out again - I think she's a flake.