I have been in university all summer long with the same group of 12 people. My class consists of all girls except for 2 boys and one of them drives me to school everyday, his name is Brad.
I noticed about a month ago that Brad liked me. I did not like him at this time, and besides for us car pooling I would try to keep my distance so that I didn't lead him on.
This past weekend, he invited me out to his lake. I agreed to go, only because he invited a few other people from class as well. While I was out there, Brad and I ended up making out. I actually developed a crush on him over the weekend, but I noticed that after we had our make out session, he started making a lot of sexual remarks towards me and it offended me. I told him to stop making inappropriate comments because they were offending me and then I told him that "what happened between us was a mistake". I guess I used the wrong choice of words, because at that point he was super upset and told me he didn't want to drive me to school.
After some convincing he ended up driving me to school on Monday, but he didn't say ONE word to me. He was flirting with every other girl in class, putting his arm around them, flirting with them, etc. Of course this made me jealous, so I decided to tell him how i felt.
I explained to him that I like him, and that i DIDN't think us making out was a mistake per say, but that i was offended that he was making sexual remarks to me afterward. He told me that he likes me too and he apologized for making inappropriate comments. After clearing the air i was convinced everything would go back to normal, but i was wrong.
In class he was once AGAIN hitting on every girl in class in front of me. Hardly talked to me at all! I was in SUCH a foul mood because of this. I felt sooo stupid for telling him that I liked him, only to have him hitting on everyone else.
I sent him a text after class today saying "You sure have an interesting way of showing someone you like them, lol"
he responded by saying "Well so do you. I was a mistake, as you said. One day I will meet someone who wont think that I am a mistake."
Oh my gosh, I feel like he is playing mind games or something! I don't need this stress while in university!
What should I do? Am I supposed to CONVINCE him that I like him?