As my husband and I have been in the process of normalizing our relationship and bringing things back into equilibrium, sex has definitely become a much more prominent issue--which is great, since we're doing it more often.
We're also exploring ways to be more adventurous in bed (and everywhere else), and one of the things I've been contemplating is dominating him while we're having sex. This may not seem that adventurous but I've typically been more submissive. I'd like to change that up, but I'm not entirely sure how to do so without lapsing into "Is this okay, honey?" or "What would you like me to do?" which would sort of defeat the purpose.
So my question to men out there is: Do you enjoy it when women are dominant in bed and take the lead as far as telling you what to do? Are there particular things that you like or dislike?