Ok so I've been working at this new job and everything has been fine so far. I'm getting along well with everyone except with one guy. I won't say we're not getting a long. I just sense this weird tension with him whenever he's around or we're together. When I speak to him, he hardly ever looks at me in the eye. He has this straight serious look on his face and I'm just trying to figure out what is going on with him. I think he's kinda cute,I just wish he would open up a little more with me like he does with other co-workers. I haven't told anyone I'm gay at my job so I don't think anyone really knows about me. They may have picked up on some things but I don't think a lot of people know about me yet.
So anyway, I keep finding him staring at me a lot of the time. In a way it's kind of creepy. I don't know what it means exactly. I don't understand why another straight man would stare at me so much. I notice sometimes when I catch him looking, he tries to look away and sometimes he'll just continue to look at me with this blank expression on his face.When conversing with me, he just seems so serious most of the time and with other co-workers, he's very friendly and goofy. I don't understand why he's this way with me and what does the staring mean. A friend may have suggested perhaps he likes me with all of the staring, but I don't know..