My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him. When we're having sex, he talks dirty to me and it turns me on and I love it, although, I have a hard time doing it in return. I never have done it. The funny thing is, we have a great sex life and we both like experimenting and trying different things to keep our sex exciting, but with THIS, I have hit a complete wall.
The annoying part is, is when we're having sex he says to me "say something dirty" and this is to make him climax.. and I'm totally stuck thinking "WHY can't I SAY something?".
What bugs me too.. is that I'm having sex, in the moment and he puts me on the spot by doing that and I kinda get annoyed. The last time that happened, I couldn't have an orgasm because I was distracted and I told him that putting me on the spot like that ruins the mood for me. If anything, lets try the dirty talk before it gets down to us being naked so I could gradually work my way up. I don't know. I tried looking for stuff online, but I'm not sure if it's just something some people do it and it comes naturally to them or what. I think when I start talking like that, I feel a little funny and embarrassed and I want to laugh. For those that do it, do you have any advice? I think my sexual vocabulary is very limited, too... so I worry about repeating the same things over again and stuttering... haha.