My boyfriend is great. I don't believe that he'd do anything to break my trust, honestly. But there's something about his personality that I'm unsure about. It's hard to describe--but he just seems like the type of person who wouldn't be happy with one woman. I know this makes no sense, but just his overall self, something about it throws me off. I can't quite pin point it, but deep down, I'm a little uncertain about him.
He's never serious, always joking about something, has very much a "party boy" persona, even in his late 20s, he's VERY crude with male friends(though I know most guys are), he watches excessive porn, has been with tons of women and has naked pictures of several on his computer, he has a ridiculously high sex drive. He has a very poor "girlfriend filter" and often blurts out whatever he's thinking with little or no thought to how I might perceive it. He has difficultly fending girls off who are interested in him because he "doesn't want to look like a <removed>". He never gets made at ANYTHING, and therefore is horrible at judging what would make someone else, i.e. me, mad. It's just a combination of things. He has a way of turning small groups of perfectly well-behaved guys---guys he just met-- into perverted, foul mouthed laughter-fests. He just seems oblivious to things that I feel most people would understand right away.
He's a fun guy. Guys, especially, love him. Some women are a little put off by him. Sometimes I'm put off by him. Some of the things he does make me wonder. He's like every guy I've even known or dated before x100 on the crudeness factor. I don't think this is me being insecure--he's just very different from anyone I've ever met or dated before. He's an extremist.