I've been dating this guy for five or six weeks. Last Saturday was our seventh date I think. We have decided to be exclusive and he says he wants to be with me long term. We have not been to bed yet but there has been some heavy necking.
We have the most amazing time together, usually when we see each other on weekends. At the end of each date, he always asks me out again for the following week.
But then I don't hear from him again until Tuesday or Wednesday. He'll call and we'll talk on the phone for 10 or 15 minutes, just some chitchat,and that's that.
I know I'm probably being needy and clingy, but I am dying for more contact from him. I adore it when a man calls all the time, at least every other day. It pushes my buttons and makes me feel closer to him. I'm trying not to get obsessed. I think of him all the time despite my best attempts to stay busy with other things.
I would like some perspective here -- what do you guys think -- am I being unreasonable for wanting him to call more often at this stage?
This honestly is making me hold back from sleeping with him.... I keep thinking, what if I go to bed with him and then he doesn't call me for three days? I probably would want to throw myself off a building. (Only half exaggerating here... ugh!)