wow, i almost cries with this post because am going through a similar situation. i gave birth 2 months ago and he seems distance, he watches porn, i tell him that i want to be intimate with him he tells me he doesnt want to. He says that he wants to give me time, but i dont think thats true, because i will understand if i wasnt ready but i am. Of course i am 30 pounds heavier but even when i look nice he doesnt say anything or try to seduce me. I feel so unwanted and sad, i was in a relationship worst than this and i coulnt take it, i feel depressed and unhappy.