Ok, this might be a long post but please bear with me because I REALLY need your help.
I have been dating my current girlfriend for over two years. For the first year and and a half or so we would have sex nearly every day and things were great. We went through a rough patch where she felt that I was not meeting her needs emotionally and only wanted sex which we reconciled. For the fall semester of 2009, we were at different colleges but are now attending the same university. For the past 6 months or so, she has lost a large amount of her sex drive. It used to be that when I would come on to her, she would reciprocate, but now she usually does not want to have sex. She says she loves me more than ever but I cant help but feel that something is wrong. The only times that we have sex (once a week if I am lucky) is when she decides, basically. I know that both people should want to have sex when it happens, but I dont feel like it is fair. I have tried to just not come on to her for days on end, but nothing changes. She takes a lot of medication for ADD, depression, anxiety, and birth control, but nothing has changed in relation to her medication since we have been together.
I am still deeply in love with her, and she says she is with me, but I need more sex. I need to be able to express my love for her in more than just conversation and spending time together. She acknowledges that her sex drive is lower and it really bothers her, but does not know what to do.
I don't want this to ruin our relationship, and I feel like a jerk by getting so upset and frustrated about the lack of intimacy, but I need more. I am 20 and she is 19.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!