I jsut read in a thread that "most women are rather incompetent at giving good blow jobs." Ok, that's fine to say I suppose. But it got me thinking.
I've been giving BJs for years. I've always heard that I'm amazing at it. I dont do anything in particular, as every guy seems to like a different technique. Mostly I listen to the sounds they make to help me determine what I'm doing correctly, and I stick with that. Also, if I am giving a blow job as a precursor to sex, I don't do anything at all to help them get off, as usually that means I won't get mine. So when I'm doing that, I tease it, stroke it, lick it, bob up and down on it with my mouth, etc. Things to make them enjoy it but not get off on it.
So what would be "evidence" of a woman who is competent at giving a good BJ? I'm just curious, as so far my boyfriend seems to think I'm rather good at it, though usually my BJs to him are before or during or after sex and therefore it doesn't really get to the point of release (note to self: give boyfriend more random BJs).