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    Everyone has there own thing, and me and my b/f are attracted to T-girls its just what we like! Some men like men some girls like girls some men like girls and guys the list can go on for days!! Its all about what YOU like not what anyone else thinks! The guy who did that to all these men i think is confused or addicated to sex and that was the only way he could get it LMAO .Y would anyone go through so much just to prove a point Makes no sence to me! These T-girls are a beautiful and some c-ds to Everyone is human and like i said EVERYONE has there own thing!!

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    good for you i guess you and your b/f like delusional species to be honest that's all to it realistic as what you said everyone has there own thing so delusional is your thing , they(transsexuals) may be beautiful in the outside but realistic the penis says it all that they are a man cause a vagina is something no money no surgery can make it naturally given to also give birth even though some biological women can't give birth that's a special unfortunate circumstance but they were born with a vagina not a penis regardless what they feel in the inside,so in conclusion delusional is your thing its alright it's the new world we live in some human find animal or child pornography as a fetish, so once again your right there's everything for everyone so delusional is your thing cause reality is something some human can't accept and the new world gives you options what you like and what you want to look like.

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    cause ur man is gay

    Lmao! Thats cause ur man is GAY! Thats how it starts slowly working his way up too sleeping with and actual man..

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucableu View Post
    Lmao! Thats cause ur man is GAY! Thats how it starts slowly working his way up too sleeping with and actual man..
    Curious--how many gay men do you know who "worked their way up" by sleeping with transsexuals?

    None, I suspect.

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    Like I said before, I have a huge problem with the question itself. It is absurd to think one could come up with a theory why some men are into T-girls anymore than we can come up with theories why straight men like women.

    Can anyone not see the problem with this?

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    There are some gay men who pretend to srt8 even marrying women and even having kids.. but are really gay and just cant deal with reality as to what they real are..

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucableu View Post
    There are some gay men who pretend to srt8 even marrying women and even having kids.. but are really gay and just cant deal with reality as to what they real are..
    To say that men who are attracted to transgendered women are actually gay is, well, quite ignorant.

    There are men out there who are attracted to the gender of "woman"--ie, the body shape, the curves, clothing choices, breasts, etc--but are tantalized by the addition of male genitalia.

    Trust me when I saw that being attracted to a man with male genitalia is different than being attracted to a woman with male genitalia.

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    So right again. Listen to this lukeb; he's smart.

    I really don't understand watching porn at all...Maybe it only makes sense to people who masterbate? I'm so messed up about this issue...The idea of sexual pleasure makes me terrified; I can't imagine wanting to watch someone else. Plus it seems risky, being with someone who's into porn. Do most people want sex just as a separate thing? Obviously I don't mean do most people want to sleep around outside a relationship, but do most people just like sex and want to have it, like imagining and seeing feels good? It just feels to me like, please don't take offense, if you like watching sex between two bodies in porn, won't you be into the act of sex and the bodies separately of the other feelings and commitments neccessary to a real relationship? Maybe that doesn't make sense...I'm a very open minded person if someone could explain this to me, I just don't see the attraction.
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    Hello,

    I posted the following response to your post in another thread. Therefore, it may not be exactly in line with this post since it was a direct response to what you said in another post.

    "I think I can offer a bit of advice for your fear.

    Your bf was honest with you about something. That is good. Regardless of what he is attracted to, all that matters is his fidelity. Even if he was 100% straight and only into genetic females, not trannies, he could still go cheat on you with another girl out of lust. Therefore, I think if you love him, all you need to do is take comfort in his honesty. Even if he desires a tranny, it doesn't mean he has to go out and get one to be satisfied. In the same vein, even if he didn't like trannies, he may still lust for the feeling of a "new" girl in bed but that doesn't mean he has to go out and get one.

    What matters is the action, not the temptation or the lust. I think if he was honest with you then this is a great sign and you have nothing to worry about. Fidelity is all that matters, not sexuality. "
    "Times of calamity and distress have always been producers of the greatest men. The hardest steel is produced from the hottest fire; the brightest star shreds the darkest night."

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    abnormal....... you have given me some real insight into this, and the questions I have relating to this. One bit of advice, don’t EVER let your wife find out. She as I did will never feel adequate again. .... I mean it. I met my soul mate, the love of my life, we got engaged we had fantastic sex, we consumed each other......call it intuition, I always had a 'niggle'. One day whilst he was at work, I sort of hacked into his laptop, I found years....years of transsexual attraction, porn and profiles on TG/TV/CD websites, I found numbers on his phone bills of - I now know TV/TG/CD escorts he had spoken to over years!! I remember feeling physically sick; it hit me like a bullet to the head. It was the LAST thing I thought I would discover in a secret life. I thought maybe my 'niggle' was porn, I never expected to find what I did. I have never ever gotten over it. Every time he loses an erection, every time I see a trigger the atmosphere becomes sickening. Not because of 'them' but, as a woman, we can never live up to these abnormal (with respect) 'hyper feministic' people, we feel inadequate. It has had a serious impact on my view of him, more so than he thinks. If it is an attraction to a penis – why don’t these ‘wo MEN” have the full operation??????? Why are there thousands of them selling their anus online? I enjoy anal sex very much, but I wouldn’t have a penis made and sell myself as a TG?????
    I will add too, that when I did find out and confronted him, he was almost suicidal, I was understanding and non judgmental, and I still want some answers. For him it is a closed book, he can't discuss it, he won’t, he is so embarrassed. We were supposed to move back to the UK - we didn't, I know now that it is because I am the only one who knows his 'secret life' and if anyone were to find out he would never be the same.
    I guess this is where I stand with 'muffinhead' and her questions - I just want to 'understand'. I wonder if this desire of his is a deep routed homosexual tendency (I feel it might be – as I felt the niggle of bi-sexuality, I still don’t know why……) or if he like you tapped or stumbled upon something that lead to arousal (he said the latter) and I was the 'take home bride' or if he really did fall head over heel with me. You can't very well take home a t-girl............. not with his family. I often feel like I need closure and to get that closure, do I try and trap him send him an email?? Deliver temptation and see if he takes the bait?? We are expecting our son in 5 weeks time and as terrible as this sounds, one of the first pictures of him from the ultrasound was his little bum, scrotum and penis.........my husband became visibly uncomfortable when both the sonographer and myself though it was the cutest thing out!! My husband has some deep demons he tries with all his might to conceal, he drank a lot when I met him, he was lonely, but he is from an outstanding family and is a Dad to a little girl, he is a gentle kind and beautiful man. I think he is tormented by his inability to fight this urge, I fear will haunt us forever.
    Don't ever let your wife find out - seriously, she will be devastated and things will probably never be the same, never.
    Thanks for listening

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