POLL: Would you or not date someone who smokes weed on a daily basis?

Revolution · 11-07-2009, 10:58 PM

I'm just curious to hear everyone's response.

I ask because another thread made me thing about it. and well, I smoke weed every day, but I also hold down a job right now, I'm just recently 19, and I make 29,000 dollars a year doing XML work and sound design.

does this make me irresponsible?

so would you? and if not...do you drink alcohol?

Cognitive_Canine · 11-07-2009, 11:00 PM

I wouldn't date someone who smokes weed on a regular basis. Occassionally (once a month or less), I'm okay with but not keen on. I drink but rarely.

Nidania · 11-07-2009, 11:01 PM

Personally, no I wouldn't. It's not my thing.

And no, I rarely drink alcohol... maybe once every couple of months.

CmplxDame08 · 11-07-2009, 11:02 PM

No, I wouldn't personally. I actually left someone over this too. If it were for medicinal purposes I still wouldn't. I don't think anything bad of people who do I just know from experience with family members who have that I couldn't be around someone who was blazed all the time. I couldnt imagine a man like that being my husband or the father of my children. So, I left my ex for those reasons. He is now a father and a very irresponsible one because half the time he is blazed. Yes he holds down a job and makes good money but his communication skills aren't great, he's moody and defensive and just out of it a lot of the the time.-I don't drink.

Christiana · 11-07-2009, 11:03 PM

I would NEVER date someone who smoked weed everyday, I just wouldn't want to be with someone who needed to have something that altered their mind to find enjoyment. Also, someone who doesn't value his healthy, knowing the side effects. And I drink socially.

bulletproof · 11-07-2009, 11:04 PM

It depends. I know people who smoke every day and that's about all they do. I also know the husband of a good friend of mine who takes a couple of hits a night, but still runs marathons, does artwork, gardens, plays guitar and about a million other things. Plus he's a great guy and they've been together for years very happily. She doesn't smoke and doesn't care about this very small part of his evening.

So it's really on a case-by-case basis, in my opinion. I smoke weed maybe once or twice a year and don't really drink, to answer your question.

Samedy · 11-07-2009, 11:06 PM

I wouldn't. I wouldn't hold it against them persay, it would just be a major turnoff.

Revolution · 11-07-2009, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Christiana

I would NEVER date someone who smoked weed everyday, I just wouldn't want to be with someone who needed to have something that altered their mind to find enjoyment. Also, someone who doesn't value his healthy, knowing the side effects. And I drink socially.

define "drinking socially"...isn't that just as bad, and worse for your health than weed ever could be?

I am not moody...lol and I'm very friendly, and I just smoke everyday because it's my culture, northern California is like jamaica and amsterdam mixed into one lol

CmplxDame08 · 11-07-2009, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Revolution

define "drinking socially"...isn't that just as bad, and worse for your health than weed ever could be?

I am not moody...lol and I'm very friendly, and I just smoke everyday because it's my culture, northern California is like jamaica and amsterdam mixed into one lol

lol I'm very familiar with Northern California and my family has jamaican heritage so I don't believe that at all.

doyathink · 11-07-2009, 11:17 PM

To me, pot isn't a drug. When I think of drugs, I think of powders, and pills.

Anyway..no, I wouldn't. Only because I did many years ago, and I dont want to be around it. I'll want to do it. If they did it once in a while, and not around me...I'm cool with that.
I dont find it to be a disabler either. I see more non functioning alcoholics then dope smokers

11-07-2009, 10:58 PM	#1
Revolution Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: San Francisco CA, AKA the 415 Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 49	POLL: Would you or not date someone who smokes weed on a daily basis? I'm just curious to hear everyone's response. I ask because another thread made me thing about it. and well, I smoke weed every day, but I also hold down a job right now, I'm just recently 19, and I make 29,000 dollars a year doing XML work and sound design. does this make me irresponsible? so would you? and if not...do you drink alcohol?

11-07-2009, 11:03 PM	#5
Christiana Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 300	I would NEVER date someone who smoked weed everyday, I just wouldn't want to be with someone who needed to have something that altered their mind to find enjoyment. Also, someone who doesn't value his healthy, knowing the side effects. And I drink socially. __________________ "All I know is I have a GED and a give em' hell attitude" ~Dean Winchester-Supernatural

11-07-2009, 11:04 PM	#6
bulletproof Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,027	It depends. I know people who smoke every day and that's about all they do. I also know the husband of a good friend of mine who takes a couple of hits a night, but still runs marathons, does artwork, gardens, plays guitar and about a million other things. Plus he's a great guy and they've been together for years very happily. She doesn't smoke and doesn't care about this very small part of his evening. So it's really on a case-by-case basis, in my opinion. I smoke weed maybe once or twice a year and don't really drink, to answer your question. __________________ A lot is two words. Prolly is not a word at all. Immerse your soul in love.

11-07-2009, 11:06 PM	#7
Samedy Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Calgary Gender: Male Posts: 1,643	I wouldn't. I wouldn't hold it against them persay, it would just be a major turnoff. __________________ "Should I Starve Unmarked, or Confess to my Blindness?"

11-07-2009, 11:17 PM	#10
doyathink Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Venus Gender: Female Posts: 5,313	To me, pot isn't a drug. When I think of drugs, I think of powders, and pills. Anyway..no, I wouldn't. Only because I did many years ago, and I dont want to be around it. I'll want to do it. If they did it once in a while, and not around me...I'm cool with that. I dont find it to be a disabler either. I see more non functioning alcoholics then dope smokers __________________ When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

11-07-2009, 11:00 PM	#2
Cognitive_Canine Online Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Gender: Female Posts: 11,352	I wouldn't date someone who smokes weed on a regular basis. Occassionally (once a month or less), I'm okay with but not keen on. I drink but rarely.

11-07-2009, 11:01 PM	#3
Nidania Online Silver Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Gender: Female Age: 35 Posts: 343	Personally, no I wouldn't. It's not my thing. And no, I rarely drink alcohol... maybe once every couple of months.

11-07-2009, 11:02 PM	#4
CmplxDame08 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Gender: None Specified Posts: 742	No, I wouldn't personally. I actually left someone over this too. If it were for medicinal purposes I still wouldn't. I don't think anything bad of people who do I just know from experience with family members who have that I couldn't be around someone who was blazed all the time. I couldnt imagine a man like that being my husband or the father of my children. So, I left my ex for those reasons. He is now a father and a very irresponsible one because half the time he is blazed. Yes he holds down a job and makes good money but his communication skills aren't great, he's moody and defensive and just out of it a lot of the the time.-I don't drink.