no brains in my head?

white daisy · 08-17-2009, 08:13 AM

I've never felt that crappy as I have lately. I wanna call him,
beg him to come back even if he had dumped me 7 times
in 10 years and we've been living separate for almost a year now.
I should have realized by now that he only caused pain
and suffering but I am like no brain at the moment.

What should I do?

quirky girl · 08-17-2009, 08:47 AM

Beg? A guy? We don't do that white daisy, it's not even an option!
I think you need to read a book to help you get in touch with your fabulous self..

white daisy · 08-17-2009, 09:02 AM

any sugestion on a book? thanks a lot for your reply...great words!

**BlueAfterglow08** · 08-17-2009, 09:04 AM

You'll get through this. Just hold your head high and keep your dignity. Dont let him know how you feel, he doesnt deserve that!!

Stay strong and DONT call him.

Crazyaboutdogs · 08-17-2009, 09:31 AM

Don't beg anyone to come back..they want to leave, tell them "go, don't let the door hit you on the a** when you leave". If someone wants out then let them go..and because he has jerked you around for far too long, do not let him back into your life.

white daisy · 08-17-2009, 09:45 AM

ENA is great supportive site! Thank you I appreciate you care...

KiNo~ · 08-17-2009, 10:03 AM

Even if you beg, it just don't work out, you do know don't you... I knew when I was begging for my ex few months ago, I felt myself so low in self-esteem at the moment, having to tell my feelings and dropped my tears in front of her but at the very moment she was just smiling while texting another guy....

Beg won't work, it only shows that you are so powerlessness and the other side gain something so called 'ego'... Whenever they ask for it(leave), give them, they do deserved it..

Hold your breath, be strong, you're not alone don't you

08-17-2009, 08:13 AM	#1
white daisy Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: world's end Gender: Female Age: 39 Posts: 16	no brains in my head? I've never felt that crappy as I have lately. I wanna call him, beg him to come back even if he had dumped me 7 times in 10 years and we've been living separate for almost a year now. I should have realized by now that he only caused pain and suffering but I am like no brain at the moment. What should I do? __________________ If love is the answer, can you rephrase the question?

08-17-2009, 09:02 AM	#3
white daisy Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: world's end Gender: Female Age: 39 Posts: 16	any sugestion on a book? thanks a lot for your reply...great words! __________________ If love is the answer, can you rephrase the question?

08-17-2009, 09:04 AM	#4
BlueAfterglow08 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 5,258	You'll get through this. Just hold your head high and keep your dignity. Dont let him know how you feel, he doesnt deserve that!! Stay strong and DONT call him. __________________ Please see the forum rules before posting http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php ''Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.' -Mahatma Gandhi'

08-17-2009, 09:45 AM	#6
white daisy Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: world's end Gender: Female Age: 39 Posts: 16	ENA is great supportive site! Thank you I appreciate you care... __________________ If love is the answer, can you rephrase the question?

08-17-2009, 08:47 AM	#2
quirky girl Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: greece/uk Gender: Female Age: 31 Posts: 1,176	Beg? A guy? We don't do that white daisy, it's not even an option! I think you need to read a book to help you get in touch with your fabulous self..

08-17-2009, 09:31 AM	#5
Crazyaboutdogs Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 46 Posts: 15,631	Don't beg anyone to come back..they want to leave, tell them "go, don't let the door hit you on the a** when you leave". If someone wants out then let them go..and because he has jerked you around for far too long, do not let him back into your life.

08-17-2009, 10:03 AM	#7
KiNo~ Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Malaysia Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 165	Even if you beg, it just don't work out, you do know don't you... I knew when I was begging for my ex few months ago, I felt myself so low in self-esteem at the moment, having to tell my feelings and dropped my tears in front of her but at the very moment she was just smiling while texting another guy.... Beg won't work, it only shows that you are so powerlessness and the other side gain something so called 'ego'... Whenever they ask for it(leave), give them, they do deserved it.. Hold your breath, be strong, you're not alone don't you