Hi everyone, so i have been recently reading the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" and have been very interested in the part about men being like rubber bands. That they need to pull away and then will eventually come back.
So here's my situation. My bf and i were together for a little over a year when he broke up with me. We ended up getting back together 3 month later and now we have been back together for almost 3 months again.
He seems to be very distant over the last few weeks, pretty much since easter. I invited him to my family easter dinner and he declined. In the last few weeks we have only seen eachother twice. This is rare cause we usually almost spend everyday together when we can and work doesnt interfere. So i decided to give him space and just try to do my own thing thinking we would come back to his old self. Well hes not and its getting worse.
I tried talkign to him about things and hes said it was all in my head, that we were spending to much time together, and that i need to see my friends more instead of always hanging out with him.
So i dont know what to do from here. DO i keep giving him space or try to talk to him again?
I just keep thinking i cant make him want to spend time with me so i dont really have much of a choice in this problem