Porn, where do you draw the line?

1MoreChance · 04-13-2009, 12:21 PM

To all the women (and men) who say they enjoy, watch, and collect porn, what kind of porn do you watch? where do you get it? I have surfed the net and seen what is there, and how many windows pop (well before... now I have a pop-up blocker so I guess it wouldn't happen). Still, I have seen all the little links where you can click to go to other sites. I have seen DVD covers in sex shops. There are SO MANY degrading images, with women with the most pathetic looks on there faces, being subsurvient, looking so sad and overwhelmed, with for example a HUGE one in their mouth, or a bunch of guys on her, just looks so one-sided: the big macho using and getting off on the passive subservient woman, and if she isn't subservient, she is obviously faking it, and it's the movie director's attempt at getting the male viewer to project himself into the character of the big macho getting the woman off (it makes him feel powerful and manly), so he will keep consuming the porn.. . etc etc

I have also seen grotesque DVD cover images and titles, such as something along the lines of Monster Boobs, or Anal come fest, and again the very ridiculous, subservient images of passive women, who look even violated, like "non-persons", with no sexual desires or needs of their own, with no boundaries, suposedly enjoying it.

so, my question: is this the kind of porn you woman (and men) are enjoying? I have nothing against "soft porn" (basically a woman and a man getting it on, a bit of foreplay, intercourse, etc., but without one degrading the other, and where each is pleasuring the other, not always the guy being rough and pumping hard and the girl screaming in a fake way, but both human, relaxed, enjoying, in a healthy give and take kind of way...), I have watched it (though i find it rather boring and silly) and yes the images turned me on, but when you talk of porn, is that what YOU watch?

also, on the net there is so much underage looking porn. Little 14 year old looking girls, in sexy little outfits, supposedly men love this? isn't it a little disturbing?

there was an expose done by a sexologist, it said that the diffence between porn and erotica is that in porn there is the absence of kissing, there is ejaculatory signature (visible ejaculation on some part of the woman, to claim her sort of thing), and the absence of relationship. whereas in erotica the outlook is different. thoughts on this?

I am curious. Obviously I do not enjoy or care to watch that kind of porn described above. I have seen many images on the net and a clip or two also. I would like to know what you think of this type of porn and is that what you enjoy, especially as a woman? if you don't enjoy it, would you watch it with your bf or do some acts / act the way the women do just to please him?
BTW I am not a nun, lol, I enjoy sex, and I don't find it shameful.

Mutley · 04-13-2009, 12:24 PM

I gave up using porn in 1996. I get too hooked into it.

1MoreChance · 04-13-2009, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutley

I gave up using porn in 1996. I get too hooked into it.

Mutley, that doesn't give me much in regards to my questions, but you add a very important point. It is highly addictive.

iLoveMyBabyCairo · 04-13-2009, 12:30 PM

I never buy it. I use the free streaming sites.
I don't look at anything out of the ordinary. Sometimes, I'll watch FFM threesomes but that's about as "freaky" as it gets. I don't have a problem wiht the other stuff, it just doesn't turn me on as much.

Mutley · 04-13-2009, 12:40 PM

Well if your question is what do I think of porn...

I admit I like the nasty stuff...between ADULTS.

NO child/teenager stuff.

Lamour detruit · 04-13-2009, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MoreChance

Mutley, that doesn't give me much in regards to my questions, but you add a very important point. It is highly addictive.

Its only addictive to those who already have such a weakness, to most it is harmless fun.

If I do, I also only use free streaming sites. We all have our kinks,fantasies or things we enjoy watching. I enjoy rough sex and dominating in the bedroom, so I look for that in what I watch as well. Perhaps it is different for some women, but I don't watch it for soft kisses or "normal" soft intercourse. The woman getting dominated, tied up, "sl*tty" behavior. I am not interested in young women or anything like it nor do I enjoy innocence, so I avoid things like that.

Edit: to agree with posts below me, I am not a fan of fake boobed blondes pretending they're enjoying being taken by a room full of toolish guys either. I prefer it natural, with passionate sex that edges on rough.

dragon lady · 04-13-2009, 12:50 PM

I like gay porn. Don't tell anyone.

I'm just not interesting in seeing fake boobed blondes pretending they're enjoying being gang-banged by a room full of guys. Yuck. I also can't stand the horrible noises that come out of their mouths when they're being pounded.

girl68 · 04-13-2009, 12:51 PM

As a women the kind of stuff that turns me on most is definatelty the soft core, lots of foreplay stuff. Or hot, passion filled sex. The "take me now" quicky's get me going though too.

Do me baby, do me baby, stick it in my a-ess-ess baby, cum on my face baby... -type porn doesn't really do it for me. Not in the same way as passion filled sex does.

I won't lie, but for some reason a girl with few guys gets me going too, but this goes alongside with what you describe as degrading to women and I agree! But for some reason I've been drawn to that type every once in a while. I hate the "idea" of it but I guess at the same time that is the very thing that causes it to appeal to me. It's "forbidden" nature of it.

I do not like close ups, in fact I hate closeups! I want to see his butt thursting motion! I don't need a 46" penis on my screen!

Anyways, that's my input.

1MoreChance · 04-13-2009, 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dragon lady

I like gay porn. Don't tell anyone.

I'm just not interesting in seeing fake boobed blondes pretending they're enjoying being gang-banged by a room full of guys. Yuck. I also can't stand the horrible noises that come out of their mouths when they're being pounded.

Dragon Lady this is mostly where my question was pointing. thanks.

1MoreChance · 04-13-2009, 12:53 PM

thanks Girl68. k I'll stop privatelly thanking everyone now, lol!

04-13-2009, 12:21 PM	#1
1MoreChance Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 1,358	Porn, where do you draw the line? To all the women (and men) who say they enjoy, watch, and collect porn, what kind of porn do you watch? where do you get it? I have surfed the net and seen what is there, and how many windows pop (well before... now I have a pop-up blocker so I guess it wouldn't happen). Still, I have seen all the little links where you can click to go to other sites. I have seen DVD covers in sex shops. There are SO MANY degrading images, with women with the most pathetic looks on there faces, being subsurvient, looking so sad and overwhelmed, with for example a HUGE one in their mouth, or a bunch of guys on her, just looks so one-sided: the big macho using and getting off on the passive subservient woman, and if she isn't subservient, she is obviously faking it, and it's the movie director's attempt at getting the male viewer to project himself into the character of the big macho getting the woman off (it makes him feel powerful and manly), so he will keep consuming the porn.. . etc etc I have also seen grotesque DVD cover images and titles, such as something along the lines of Monster Boobs, or Anal come fest, and again the very ridiculous, subservient images of passive women, who look even violated, like "non-persons", with no sexual desires or needs of their own, with no boundaries, suposedly enjoying it. so, my question: is this the kind of porn you woman (and men) are enjoying? I have nothing against "soft porn" (basically a woman and a man getting it on, a bit of foreplay, intercourse, etc., but without one degrading the other, and where each is pleasuring the other, not always the guy being rough and pumping hard and the girl screaming in a fake way, but both human, relaxed, enjoying, in a healthy give and take kind of way...), I have watched it (though i find it rather boring and silly) and yes the images turned me on, but when you talk of porn, is that what YOU watch? also, on the net there is so much underage looking porn. Little 14 year old looking girls, in sexy little outfits, supposedly men love this? isn't it a little disturbing? there was an expose done by a sexologist, it said that the diffence between porn and erotica is that in porn there is the absence of kissing, there is ejaculatory signature (visible ejaculation on some part of the woman, to claim her sort of thing), and the absence of relationship. whereas in erotica the outlook is different. thoughts on this? I am curious. Obviously I do not enjoy or care to watch that kind of porn described above. I have seen many images on the net and a clip or two also. I would like to know what you think of this type of porn and is that what you enjoy, especially as a woman? if you don't enjoy it, would you watch it with your bf or do some acts / act the way the women do just to please him? BTW I am not a nun, lol, I enjoy sex, and I don't find it shameful.

04-13-2009, 12:24 PM	#2
Mutley Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 40 Posts: 2,818	I gave up using porn in 1996. I get too hooked into it. __________________ "May a diseased yak leave a bar mitzvah gift in your sock drawer."

04-13-2009, 12:30 PM	#4
iLoveMyBabyCairo Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Liverpool, where the sun never shines. Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 6,025	I never buy it. I use the free streaming sites. I don't look at anything out of the ordinary. Sometimes, I'll watch FFM threesomes but that's about as "freaky" as it gets. I don't have a problem wiht the other stuff, it just doesn't turn me on as much. __________________ JenSocietyOfSloreMaking!© --Lionel Hutz No that's not how you express love! You express your love by calling her a dirty little ***** and slapping her in the face with your penis! --hersmudders...always classy.

04-13-2009, 12:40 PM	#5
Mutley Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 40 Posts: 2,818	Well if your question is what do I think of porn... I admit I like the nasty stuff...between ADULTS. NO child/teenager stuff. __________________ "May a diseased yak leave a bar mitzvah gift in your sock drawer."

04-13-2009, 12:50 PM	#7
dragon lady Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 2,614	I like gay porn. Don't tell anyone. I'm just not interesting in seeing fake boobed blondes pretending they're enjoying being gang-banged by a room full of guys. Yuck. I also can't stand the horrible noises that come out of their mouths when they're being pounded.

04-13-2009, 12:51 PM	#8
girl68 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Beatutiful Britsh Columbia Gender: Female Age: 25 Posts: 1,484	As a women the kind of stuff that turns me on most is definatelty the soft core, lots of foreplay stuff. Or hot, passion filled sex. The "take me now" quicky's get me going though too. Do me baby, do me baby, stick it in my a-ess-ess baby, cum on my face baby... -type porn doesn't really do it for me. Not in the same way as passion filled sex does. I won't lie, but for some reason a girl with few guys gets me going too, but this goes alongside with what you describe as degrading to women and I agree! But for some reason I've been drawn to that type every once in a while. I hate the "idea" of it but I guess at the same time that is the very thing that causes it to appeal to me. It's "forbidden" nature of it. I do not like close ups, in fact I hate closeups! I want to see his butt thursting motion! I don't need a 46" penis on my screen! Anyways, that's my input.

04-13-2009, 12:53 PM	#10
1MoreChance Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 1,358	thanks Girl68. k I'll stop privatelly thanking everyone now, lol!