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Question for girls regarding Threesome / Double penetration


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Ok, im 18 currently in university, and randomly at a party with me and my whole group of friends, dont ask me how but the topic of double penetration came up.

 

And like almost every girl there admited to fantasizeing about it and such.

 

Like that suprised me, because i wonder like Is my girlfriend wanting to have more than just me?

Like im not one personally who would want to encounter a threesome, weither it be 2 girls 1 guy, or 2 guys one girl.

 

 

i'd feel hurt if my girlfriend wanted that, but like

 

Do alot of girls actually fantasize over it, but in reality don't want to do it?

 

There are things i may occasionally fantasize about it, but i'd never want to do it in reality.

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Wanting something..... and fantasizing about something is 2 different things.

I have sexual fantasies about things that are hot in my imagination,but if it happen in the real life.... 100% sure I wouldnt like it that much, it wouldnt be as sexy, and definitely I dont want most of my fantasies become true, after all,like the name says... Its a fantasy

 

but I assume you do not even know if your gf fantasizes about it, cuz she didnt mention it, so, rly, calm down and relax.... and dont ask her about it.. Its private, and not something you should ask her about, cuz 1) u are gonna make yourself look weird by asking "do you ever fantasize about having more than 1 c*ck in you?", 2) theres a big chance that all it does is getting u hurt.. and 3) its her privacy, Im sure she doesnt ask you about any specific fantasies.

 

 

So stop thinking about it and if your relationship is good then dont let so small stuff get you down & worried..

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I've only occassionally heard of girls fantasizing about more than 1 guy at a time, but extremely rarely about double penetration.

 

FYI, OP, you used the word "like" 5 times in your post inappropriately. People are more likely to give help/advice if they can easily read and understand your post. Sorry to be the grammar police, but this will help here as well as university.

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i think it's possible that many of the girls who "admitted" to fantasizing about it, were only doing so because they thought it made them sound "cool" and adventurous. i'm not saying that girls don't fantasize about this ever (though i honestly never have, one penis is good enough for me, ouchh.) but just that i really don't think it's as common as these girls made it seem. if i'm wrong about them, i'm wrong, but i can tell you there's at least one girl out there who doesn't need more than one man in bed (mee)

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Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you.

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Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you.

 

god, yeah... imagine being stretched like that, and the delicate skin in between tearing and being incontinent and whatnot... ugh!

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Well, if it makes you feel any better, you can do the double penetration without a second man in the bed. Why not just ask her what she's thinking?

Haha, I'm not sure what you're thinking, but my girlfriend and I have done exactly that: My Penis + Vibe = DP

 

She's "different" and uninhibited, I'll be the first to admit that, but she has always enjoyed that form of DP, and we've done it more than once. (And, no, not two in the same hole, as some on this thread have speculated.)

 

Plus, guys .... you can feel that thing vibrating from the inside. Think about it.

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Fantasies are just fantasies...sometimes a woman can fanatasize about double penetration while she is masturbating just like guys will fantasize that they are the ones having sex with the woman in the porn movie. Men fantasize with visuals while women fantasize with their mind. If fantasy doesn't enter the realm of reality there is nothing wrong with it.

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My girlfriend always thought that having a threesome with two guys would make her feel dirty/used/demeaned. Then we tried it (no dp though) and she ended up loving it because the focus was totally on pleasing her. When you get two guys together it's almost like a competition, each guy tries to step it up a notch over the other and it ends up just being really good for the woman haha. When all was said and done she didn't regret a thing.

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My girlfriend always thought that having a threesome with two guys would make her feel dirty/used/demeaned. Then we tried it (no dp though) and she ended up loving it because the focus was totally on pleasing her. When you get two guys together it's almost like a competition, each guy tries to step it up a notch over the other and it ends up just being really good for the woman haha. When all was said and done she didn't regret a thing.

 

you're such a good boyfriend

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When douple penetration is mentioned, is that anal and vaginal insertion at the same time or can one of them be oral?

 

I knew quite a few women who have had the vaginal and oral at the same time fantasy. I have never been involved in the actual act but during intercourse, some liked to imagine that they had another member in front of them to use orally.

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When douple penetration is mentioned, is that anal and vaginal insertion at the same time or can one of them be oral?

Well, hmmmmm, there's no official definition, but I'd surmise that oral + vaginal doesn't meet the "classic" definition of "DP."

 

 

When in doubt, let "porn standards" be your guide.

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