could I be infertile?

mags_7531 · 03-30-2009, 07:39 PM

Ok Im not looking for a lecture on unprotective sex just looking for some insight.

My bf and i have never had sex with a condom and I used to be on birth control but stopped taking it after trying 3 different kinds and still having it make me sick.

So we have been having unprotected sex for over a year and a half and i havent got preganant. He pulls out every time and we have never had a close call with him cumming inside me.

Im not looking to get pregnant but from what i have heard and learned that theres a huge possibility of getting preganat with the pull out method. Is it just lucky that i havent got preganant yet? Im beginning to think i might have fertility problems or something

iLoveMyBabyCairo · 03-30-2009, 07:43 PM

It's possible... You've basically been playing Russian Roulette with your sex habits. Unless you want to get pregnant, I'd start using some sort of protection. You may have just been extremely lucky in terms of not getting pregnant.

uofagirl · 03-30-2009, 07:44 PM

If you aren't looking to get pregnant, then why are you having unprotected sex? That really makes no sense, at all.

Of all the times you've been having sex...you could simply not be ovulating...

Bubalu · 03-30-2009, 07:44 PM

There's not a huge possibility of getting pregnant with the pull-out method!! That's only used to scare people so that they don't have unprotected sex. There is a possibility, but it's not huge. And yeah, I think you've just been lucky.

purpleduckie · 03-30-2009, 07:50 PM

my highschool bestfriend thought that her bf was infertile... they had unprotected sex for about 2 years. then she got pregnant. it all went to hell. she was only 16.

Jd1118 · 03-30-2009, 07:54 PM

No, I think that you're just extremely lucky in that aspect. There is a possibility that you may get pregnant though, especially around your cycle.

HeartGoesOn · 03-30-2009, 08:01 PM

You're luck could run out any day.

No lectures, but I hope you're both ready to support a baby if you do get pregnant.

villie · 03-30-2009, 08:05 PM

Sounds like your extremely lucky! But i would probably go to the doc just to get checked out. I find that once a thought like that gets into your mind, its hard to get it out of there.

doyathink · 03-30-2009, 08:13 PM

Could be luck, could be that you're infertile. You don't say how old you are, so I'm assuming you're not at the age of menopause.

At least use some spermicidal inserts for a back up.

coldplay. · 03-30-2009, 09:00 PM

My friend, pulled out without protection for a year, his gf now wife and him have 2 kids, you are playing your chances, dont get surprised.

03-30-2009, 07:39 PM	#1
mags_7531 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: canada Gender: Female Posts: 78	could I be infertile? Ok Im not looking for a lecture on unprotective sex just looking for some insight. My bf and i have never had sex with a condom and I used to be on birth control but stopped taking it after trying 3 different kinds and still having it make me sick. So we have been having unprotected sex for over a year and a half and i havent got preganant. He pulls out every time and we have never had a close call with him cumming inside me. Im not looking to get pregnant but from what i have heard and learned that theres a huge possibility of getting preganat with the pull out method. Is it just lucky that i havent got preganant yet? Im beginning to think i might have fertility problems or something

03-30-2009, 07:43 PM	#2
iLoveMyBabyCairo Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Liverpool, where the sun never shines. Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 6,037	It's possible... You've basically been playing Russian Roulette with your sex habits. Unless you want to get pregnant, I'd start using some sort of protection. You may have just been extremely lucky in terms of not getting pregnant. __________________ JenSocietyOfSloreMaking!© --Lionel Hutz No that's not how you express love! You express your love by calling her a dirty little ***** and slapping her in the face with your penis! --hersmudders...always classy.

03-30-2009, 08:01 PM	#7
HeartGoesOn Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Massachusetts Gender: Female Posts: 2,658	You're luck could run out any day. No lectures, but I hope you're both ready to support a baby if you do get pregnant. __________________ ~ Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance, And when you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance... I hope you dance. ~

03-30-2009, 08:13 PM	#9
doyathink Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Venus Gender: Female Posts: 5,313	Could be luck, could be that you're infertile. You don't say how old you are, so I'm assuming you're not at the age of menopause. At least use some spermicidal inserts for a back up. __________________ When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

03-30-2009, 09:00 PM	#10
coldplay. Offline Gold Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 1,058	My friend, pulled out without protection for a year, his gf now wife and him have 2 kids, you are playing your chances, dont get surprised. __________________ given a chance i wanna be somebody if for one dance i wanna be somebody open the door it's gonna make you love me facing the door i wanna be somebody

03-30-2009, 07:44 PM	#3
uofagirl Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 328	If you aren't looking to get pregnant, then why are you having unprotected sex? That really makes no sense, at all. Of all the times you've been having sex...you could simply not be ovulating...

03-30-2009, 07:44 PM	#4
Bubalu Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 1,255	There's not a huge possibility of getting pregnant with the pull-out method!! That's only used to scare people so that they don't have unprotected sex. There is a possibility, but it's not huge. And yeah, I think you've just been lucky.

03-30-2009, 07:50 PM	#5
purpleduckie Offline Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 1,309	my highschool bestfriend thought that her bf was infertile... they had unprotected sex for about 2 years. then she got pregnant. it all went to hell. she was only 16.

03-30-2009, 07:54 PM	#6
Jd1118 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Age: 26 Posts: 1,141	No, I think that you're just extremely lucky in that aspect. There is a possibility that you may get pregnant though, especially around your cycle.

03-30-2009, 08:05 PM	#8
villie Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 166	Sounds like your extremely lucky! But i would probably go to the doc just to get checked out. I find that once a thought like that gets into your mind, its hard to get it out of there.