Eating Disorders...advice needed asap

Holly_061290 · 01-26-2009, 05:12 PM

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You know you get the really skinny girls that everyone is shocked by and says they are ugly? Well I think they are beautiful, I crave to be that skinny...I feel asthough I have the mind to have an eating disorder but the will power or something is not there, infact I dont have the will power to do anything these days...I dont know what it is but I want it and I know its not healthy or good but I really want it.

I've tried not eating, I've tried fad diets, I've tried diet pills and hunger suppliments, I've tried smoking and my weight is always going up and down.

Is the fact that I want it a problem? Am I kinda being saved by my lack of will power to do anything? Is there anything I can do or I dunno lol...Im confused.

xXx

**BlueAfterglow08** · 01-26-2009, 05:18 PM

Im feeling fat lately too. But to be that thin is unhealthy. Your body starts eating your muscle and it destroys your organs.

There is a happy medium ,you can be thin without being unhealthily so just as long as your healthy about it. Just eat fruit, veg and the most important thing is exercise.

thejigsup · 01-26-2009, 05:20 PM

I am a great deal older than you guys, but I will tell you this. Not one girl who starved herself, that I personally knew, is alive today. Sad. They died of various things, but mostly cardiac arrest. Their bodies just said, "Enough of this bs!" Don't try to be what you aren't. Love who you are and you will live a long, happy life that all the skinny girls will envy.

Holly_061290 · 01-26-2009, 05:22 PM

I'm not fat in the slightest...I'm already boardering on underweight with my bmi. I just want more x

**BlueAfterglow08** · 01-26-2009, 05:23 PM

You must realise thats unhealthy and unnatractive. Is it worth dying to be so thin?

Holly_061290 · 01-26-2009, 05:26 PM

I know its bad...but its something I cant get out of my brain x

**BlueAfterglow08** · 01-26-2009, 05:27 PM

You know. For a fact. You are pretty much underweight. That should be enough. You know your not fat and you know super skinny is bad. So keep telling yourself your fine as you are.

Holly_061290 · 01-26-2009, 05:28 PM

I dont feel pretty though...I'm a model...the girls who are the best models are stick thin...I want to be there x

sarey · 01-26-2009, 05:29 PM

I have had an eating disorder for going on 4 years now. I have starved, I have purged, I have restricted, exercised excessively, and I have lost A lot of weight. Truth be told, you don't want to be anorexic skinny. I may be hypocritical, but I don't want someone to go down this path of HELL.

You WILL die if you go down this road. If you try and be like that. I have serious health complications due to my eating disorder, and I wish so badly I never started, but it isn't as easy as that, nope, it is sheer hell, a fight everyday, a struggle.

I hope you get some help with this because you may not have an eating disorder now, but with this frame of mind, you will end up down that path.

God's speed.
x

nutbrownhare · 01-26-2009, 05:30 PM

I'm not being 'funny' here, HollyAnne, but is there a part of you which would like to disappear?

01-26-2009, 05:12 PM	#1
Holly_061290 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 34	Eating Disorders...advice needed asap I think this goes in here feel free to move You know you get the really skinny girls that everyone is shocked by and says they are ugly? Well I think they are beautiful, I crave to be that skinny...I feel asthough I have the mind to have an eating disorder but the will power or something is not there, infact I dont have the will power to do anything these days...I dont know what it is but I want it and I know its not healthy or good but I really want it. I've tried not eating, I've tried fad diets, I've tried diet pills and hunger suppliments, I've tried smoking and my weight is always going up and down. Is the fact that I want it a problem? Am I kinda being saved by my lack of will power to do anything? Is there anything I can do or I dunno lol...Im confused. xXx

01-26-2009, 05:18 PM	#2
BlueAfterglow08 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 5,256	Im feeling fat lately too. But to be that thin is unhealthy. Your body starts eating your muscle and it destroys your organs. There is a happy medium ,you can be thin without being unhealthily so just as long as your healthy about it. Just eat fruit, veg and the most important thing is exercise. __________________ Please see the forum rules before posting http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php ''Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.' -Mahatma Gandhi'

01-26-2009, 05:23 PM	#5
BlueAfterglow08 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 5,256	You must realise thats unhealthy and unnatractive. Is it worth dying to be so thin? __________________ Please see the forum rules before posting http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php ''Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.' -Mahatma Gandhi'

01-26-2009, 05:27 PM	#7
BlueAfterglow08 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 5,256	You know. For a fact. You are pretty much underweight. That should be enough. You know your not fat and you know super skinny is bad. So keep telling yourself your fine as you are. __________________ Please see the forum rules before posting http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php ''Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.' -Mahatma Gandhi'

01-26-2009, 05:20 PM	#3
thejigsup Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Gender: Female Age: 53 Posts: 4,132	I am a great deal older than you guys, but I will tell you this. Not one girl who starved herself, that I personally knew, is alive today. Sad. They died of various things, but mostly cardiac arrest. Their bodies just said, "Enough of this bs!" Don't try to be what you aren't. Love who you are and you will live a long, happy life that all the skinny girls will envy.

01-26-2009, 05:22 PM	#4
Holly_061290 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 34	I'm not fat in the slightest...I'm already boardering on underweight with my bmi. I just want more x

01-26-2009, 05:26 PM	#6
Holly_061290 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 34	I know its bad...but its something I cant get out of my brain x

01-26-2009, 05:28 PM	#8
Holly_061290 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 34	I dont feel pretty though...I'm a model...the girls who are the best models are stick thin...I want to be there x

01-26-2009, 05:29 PM	#9
sarey Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: In the UK, somewhere... Gender: Female Posts: 1,438	I have had an eating disorder for going on 4 years now. I have starved, I have purged, I have restricted, exercised excessively, and I have lost A lot of weight. Truth be told, you don't want to be anorexic skinny. I may be hypocritical, but I don't want someone to go down this path of HELL. You WILL die if you go down this road. If you try and be like that. I have serious health complications due to my eating disorder, and I wish so badly I never started, but it isn't as easy as that, nope, it is sheer hell, a fight everyday, a struggle. I hope you get some help with this because you may not have an eating disorder now, but with this frame of mind, you will end up down that path. God's speed. x

01-26-2009, 05:30 PM	#10
nutbrownhare Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2008 Gender: None Specified Posts: 1,193	I'm not being 'funny' here, HollyAnne, but is there a part of you which would like to disappear?