My ex lover has been telling me for the post few weeks to NEVER contact him again. I am having a problem with NC. I keep trying to call and text over and over. Sometime I get a one word reponse like "Stop". I admit it's gotten out of control and I appear psycho. He has said, Stop, Leave me alone, Don't ever contact me again, You're insane, - you get the idea.
Today he told me if I change my behaviour, maybe he will change his thought of me. He said MAYBE MAYBE he will contact me if he wants to talk, but my actions have not helped my cause.
I know he's moving on and I am ok with that. It has little to do with him finding someone else, I expect that and can accept it as that is normal.
What hurts the most is that he can forget the good times and has no desire to remain friends or to give it some time to heal and then catch up as friends.
Given what he said, do you think if I back off there is a chance I will hear from him eventually?