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Old 01-08-2009, 12:17 AM   #1
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I both feel Pity and Angry for them

I have a lot of Beautiful female classmates from high school that mostly have the Brains and Figure. But i feel Pity for the most of them, because Most of them never got a chance of either being on College or enjoyed their teen-age life!

I asked them "Wheres your Husband?" they replied "Finding a Job", or "At the Construction Site", and "etc". Yet the Worst reply is "They Left me...", and "He said He was going abroad to find Money, But now a single cent came", and the most common "I was raped when i was drunk".

At the same time i felt angry for them!

Why??? As for me I have desired to stay single for the rest of my life!

[To Be Continued Later]

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I dont meant for some people to be offended. i just want to say what i feel for them.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 12:44 AM   #2
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I have a lot of Beautiful female classmates from high school that mostly have the Brains and Figure. But i feel Pity for the most of them, because Most of them never got a chance of either being on College or enjoyed their teen-age life!

I asked them "Wheres your Husband?" they replied "Finding a Job", or "At the Construction Site", and "etc". Yet the Worst reply is "They Left me...", and "He said He was going abroad to find Money, But now a single cent came", and the most common "I was raped when i was drunk".

At the same time i felt angry for them!

Why??? As for me I have desired to stay single for the rest of my life!

[To Be Continued Later]

Please send some replies...

I dont meant for some people to be offended. i just want to say what i feel for them.
When you ask women you know where their husband is, the most common answer you hear is "I was raped when I was drunk'??

So you are saying the majority of women you know married men that raped them while they were drunk? That really doesn't even make sense to me, sorry.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 12:49 AM   #3
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Your post is very judgmental. You need to worry about what's going on in your life and leave everyone else be.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 12:50 AM   #4
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When you ask women you know where their husband is, the most common answer you hear is "I was raped when I was drunk'??

So you are saying the majority of women you know married men that raped them while they were drunk? That really doesn't even make sense to me, sorry.
I agree. Your post makes zero sense. No woman has ever told you that she married her husband because he raped her while she was drunk. "The most common"? No, never. And even if that were true - which it's not - no one would ever offer you that information. I have no idea why you posted this. If you're saying, basically, "I feel sorry for all women" then I'm just thinking that you are actually quite terrified of women, and are employing some bizarre defense mechanism on an anonymous messageboard to make yourself feel better somehow. In any case, my advice for this post is simple:

Seek professional help.
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Old 01-08-2009, 12:51 AM   #5
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I am pretty with brains and my life is nothing like that you described. Many of us go to college, have successful, fulfilling lives, and have men that love us.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 12:53 AM   #6
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I think that you are making far too many generalizations and even if you didn't mean to offend the language of your post is offensive. Think before you write!
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Old 01-08-2009, 01:10 AM   #7
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Pity? I think you're just envious of those who have brains and beauty. Like me
 
Old 01-08-2009, 01:11 AM   #8
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i don't understand...what are you saying? where does rape come in to being married?!?!
HUH!?!?
 
Old 01-08-2009, 01:44 AM   #9
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