birth control

alliecat · 12-28-2008, 04:55 PM

I am on the pill. Is it ok to have my bf cum in me? or should he pull out just to be on the safe side? We love eachother very much and he is ready if I became pregnant, I'm just not sure I am. I want him to cum in me and I no how well the pill works. I'm wondering if it's a bad idea?

Catarro · 12-28-2008, 05:04 PM

Don't worry. Just make sure you are taking it right and be careful with interactions with other drugs that might interfere with its metabolism, and problems such as diarrhoea which might lower absorption.

agent · 12-28-2008, 05:05 PM

Nothing is 100%, but if you also use condoms then I don't see a problem in him cumming in you.

Rose21 · 12-28-2008, 05:08 PM

This is where I stand. I'm on the b-control pill and I take it PERFECTLY. I've never missed one, or taken one more then 5 minutes past the time I'm supposed to. Even when I went to Florida, since I take it at 10:00 here, I took it at 11:00 there, because it;s an hr later. I didn't even want to risk that hr off for 5 days.

But as an EXTRA percaution my boyfriend pulls out aswell. Condoms are out of the question, they arn't comfortable for me and they give me rashes, latex or non-latex. Although I very want to exprience what it feels like for him to cum in me, I dont want to risk it. Im nowhere near ready to be a mother, and honestly I'm 95% sure I don't want kids at all. I plan on being on b-control for ever, although when I get married to him, he will be able to cum inside me. But I don't want kids. Even if he came in me, and there would be almost no risk of me getting pregnant, we would both still be paranoid until my next period came.

So whats the point in risking things?

amipushy · 12-28-2008, 05:24 PM

I took it for many years, never got pregnant. Don't forget to take it exactly how it says on the packet though, you cannot take chances like that, if I missed one or was very late I would use condoms.

Rose21 · 12-28-2008, 05:33 PM

Yeah, I've never missed one or taken one late.

I make sure I never use antibiotics, and my medicine (lexapro, and things like advil and pain medicine) and my yeast infection cream I used, dont affect against the potency. Only strong anti-biotics do. IF you need an anti-biotic, you can even find one that doesn't react with your b-control.

I always have him pull out. No need in feeling paranoid. Not pulling out when on b-control is like shooting yourself in the foot.

I was stupid with my ex when I lost my virginity, I wasn't on b-control, he didn't use a condom, just pulling out. THANK GOD I didn't get pregnant, but I wont be that stupid again.

Pulling out itself, doesn't do much. But that on top of b-control is pretty solid.

Kalika · 12-28-2008, 06:14 PM

I think as long as you didn't JUST start it (have been on a few months) and are taking it regularly, you should be OK.

Just don't be naive about STD's. No one thinks they'll get them until they do. You should think about condoms, male or female..

Rose21 · 12-28-2008, 06:28 PM

I don't bother with condoms because I'm only sleeping with my boyfriend, and I know we are both clean.

GottaLetItBurn · 12-28-2008, 06:38 PM

I was wondering about this topic too. I hear all these woman talk about birth control as though it is a sure thing. I feel safer knowing birth control works pretty well. I don't want to get a girl pregnant but I also don't want to wear condoms.

Rose21 · 12-28-2008, 06:43 PM

Then make sure shes on b-control AND pull out.

If its just a hook up though, use a condom!

I don't have to deal with that, because I don't do those.

12-28-2008, 04:55 PM	#1
alliecat Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 13	birth control I am on the pill. Is it ok to have my bf cum in me? or should he pull out just to be on the safe side? We love eachother very much and he is ready if I became pregnant, I'm just not sure I am. I want him to cum in me and I no how well the pill works. I'm wondering if it's a bad idea?

12-28-2008, 05:05 PM	#3
agent Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 3,890	Nothing is 100%, but if you also use condoms then I don't see a problem in him cumming in you. __________________ "You have a right to experiment with your life. You will make mistakes. And they are right too." - Anais Nin "Come now, don't make such a funeral face. It isn't dying that's sad; it's living when you're not happy." -Octave Mirbeau "Don't be sad, don't be angry, if life deceives you! Submit to your grief; your time for joy will come, believe me." -Aleksandr Pushkin

12-28-2008, 06:38 PM	#9
GottaLetItBurn Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 687	I was wondering about this topic too. I hear all these woman talk about birth control as though it is a sure thing. I feel safer knowing birth control works pretty well. I don't want to get a girl pregnant but I also don't want to wear condoms. __________________ "Everybody's at war with different things...I'm at war with my own heart sometimes."-Tupac Shakur

12-28-2008, 05:04 PM	#2
Catarro Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 13	Don't worry. Just make sure you are taking it right and be careful with interactions with other drugs that might interfere with its metabolism, and problems such as diarrhoea which might lower absorption.

12-28-2008, 05:08 PM	#4
Rose21 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 2,589	This is where I stand. I'm on the b-control pill and I take it PERFECTLY. I've never missed one, or taken one more then 5 minutes past the time I'm supposed to. Even when I went to Florida, since I take it at 10:00 here, I took it at 11:00 there, because it;s an hr later. I didn't even want to risk that hr off for 5 days. But as an EXTRA percaution my boyfriend pulls out aswell. Condoms are out of the question, they arn't comfortable for me and they give me rashes, latex or non-latex. Although I very want to exprience what it feels like for him to cum in me, I dont want to risk it. Im nowhere near ready to be a mother, and honestly I'm 95% sure I don't want kids at all. I plan on being on b-control for ever, although when I get married to him, he will be able to cum inside me. But I don't want kids. Even if he came in me, and there would be almost no risk of me getting pregnant, we would both still be paranoid until my next period came. So whats the point in risking things?

12-28-2008, 05:24 PM	#5
amipushy Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: Female Posts: 1,823	I took it for many years, never got pregnant. Don't forget to take it exactly how it says on the packet though, you cannot take chances like that, if I missed one or was very late I would use condoms.

12-28-2008, 05:33 PM	#6
Rose21 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 2,589	Yeah, I've never missed one or taken one late. I make sure I never use antibiotics, and my medicine (lexapro, and things like advil and pain medicine) and my yeast infection cream I used, dont affect against the potency. Only strong anti-biotics do. IF you need an anti-biotic, you can even find one that doesn't react with your b-control. I always have him pull out. No need in feeling paranoid. Not pulling out when on b-control is like shooting yourself in the foot. I was stupid with my ex when I lost my virginity, I wasn't on b-control, he didn't use a condom, just pulling out. THANK GOD I didn't get pregnant, but I wont be that stupid again. Pulling out itself, doesn't do much. But that on top of b-control is pretty solid.

12-28-2008, 06:14 PM	#7
Kalika Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 1,343	I think as long as you didn't JUST start it (have been on a few months) and are taking it regularly, you should be OK. Just don't be naive about STD's. No one thinks they'll get them until they do. You should think about condoms, male or female..

12-28-2008, 06:28 PM	#8
Rose21 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 2,589	I don't bother with condoms because I'm only sleeping with my boyfriend, and I know we are both clean.

12-28-2008, 06:43 PM	#10
Rose21 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 2,589	Then make sure shes on b-control AND pull out. If its just a hook up though, use a condom! I don't have to deal with that, because I don't do those.