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Old 12-05-2008, 10:24 AM   #1
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Present Ideas - Brainstorm

Hi,

Does anyone have any ideas of what we can get my partners father for christmas.
He is bed bound and has a terminal brain tumour, can't read or really watch tv, and his hands are quite shaky.
We have exhausted all options i can think of so far for birthday, we have done chocolates, new fluffy pillow type thing, vibrating massage slippers..

It's getting very difficult to think of anything to get him, any ideas would be welcomed.
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Old 12-05-2008, 10:26 AM   #2
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A throw blanket?
Or what about an audio book? Does he listen to music?
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Old 12-05-2008, 10:29 AM   #3
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Where you live are there cancer organizations that might have relevant gift ideas for terminal patients. Like Asti said, a blanket might be a good idea.
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Old 12-05-2008, 10:35 AM   #4
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Does he have a nice CD player in his room? Perhaps some books on cd that he would like. If he is religous you can get the bible on tape/cd also.

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Old 12-05-2008, 10:59 AM   #5
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How about a little fishbowl with low-maintenance fish? Is someone around enough & wouldn't mind the upkeep? (cleaning the bowl, feeding). Like a beta fish. They are so pretty & don't even need air bubbles. I used to put my beta one in this gorgeous vase I have.
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Old 12-05-2008, 01:00 PM   #6
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A book of photos going through his life and the lives of his family.

We did it for my grandmother.
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