Fathers' reaction to their ''little girls''

yeawutever · 12-02-2008, 10:53 PM

Ok this has make me wonder. How do they react and feel within themselves when they find out that their ''little girl'' is no longer a virgin.

**melrich** · 12-02-2008, 10:58 PM

My "little girl" is only 3 so I have plenty of time to adjust before that "event" is upon me. But interesting question. I am sure it is probably a time of real mixed emotions for Dads. I am guessing that Dads are probably subconsciously protected from thinking about the actual physical act and focus instead on the happiness of their daughters. I hope so anyway.

MyheartorHis · 12-02-2008, 10:58 PM

I have no clue. My dad doesn't know for a fact, but I'm pretty sure he has already figured it out.

I don't like to see him upset.

But if my dad isn't hiding any feelings, I'm sure it's more of a I'll be fine if I don't hear it or see it.

Cognitive_Canine · 12-02-2008, 11:00 PM

My parents will get over it. I am far more responsible and have a healthier relationship than either of them ever did in their teen years and twenties.

yeawutever · 12-02-2008, 11:02 PM

Yea he probably knows it Myheart but probably doesn't wanna hear about it. Mine didn't wanna hear about it that much but I can tell it was hard on him at first. Then again as long as you're happy that's what really counts.

kuiks8 · 12-02-2008, 11:02 PM

i was married and my dad still thinks i am his little virgin

MyheartorHis · 12-02-2008, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mythical_Suicide

My dad (as well as my brother, who is 10 years older) still like to believe that i'm still a virgin (The Virgin Mary perhaps?) even though I have a 3 year old son.
Some fathers never come to terms with their babies growing up.

My dad avoided me for 4 months when he found out I was pregnant because he didn't want to accept it.
Hell he flipped out when he found out I had even started my period, LOL.

Yeah, I think it's like a denial thing going on for dad's.

It's okay, though... they are our daddies, they have a right to think their little girls will always be THEIR little girls!

Jetta · 12-02-2008, 11:27 PM

My dad cried, one of the few times in life I seen him cry.

shikashika · 12-03-2008, 04:53 AM

I never had this discussion with my father...did any of you?

They know, and they assume..i think.. but i don't talk about blowjobs and orgasms with my dad!

He talks about wanting to have sex wiht my mum all the time though... and even though i used to think it was gross...I hope I'm still bonking away when i'm nearly 70!!

yeawutever · 12-03-2008, 05:08 AM

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Originally Posted by shikashika

They know, and they assume..i think.. but i don't talk about blowjobs and orgasms with my dad!

Off course not, it's embarassing. To a father, he wants to see the image of his ''little girl'' to always be pure and untouched.

12-02-2008, 10:53 PM	#1
yeawutever Online Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,673	Fathers' reaction to their ''little girls'' Ok this has make me wonder. How do they react and feel within themselves when they find out that their ''little girl'' is no longer a virgin. __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend.

12-02-2008, 11:02 PM	#5
yeawutever Online Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,673	Yea he probably knows it Myheart but probably doesn't wanna hear about it. Mine didn't wanna hear about it that much but I can tell it was hard on him at first. Then again as long as you're happy that's what really counts. __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend.

12-02-2008, 11:27 PM	#8
Jetta Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Minnesota Gender: Female Age: 35 Posts: 2,354	My dad cried, one of the few times in life I seen him cry. __________________ "Reality is what won't go away when you stop believing in it." -Phillip K* "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." -Carl Jung

12-02-2008, 10:58 PM	#2
melrich Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Gender: Male Posts: 8,498	My "little girl" is only 3 so I have plenty of time to adjust before that "event" is upon me. But interesting question. I am sure it is probably a time of real mixed emotions for Dads. I am guessing that Dads are probably subconsciously protected from thinking about the actual physical act and focus instead on the happiness of their daughters. I hope so anyway.

12-02-2008, 10:58 PM	#3
MyheartorHis Offline Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tennessee Gender: Female Posts: 478	I have no clue. My dad doesn't know for a fact, but I'm pretty sure he has already figured it out. I don't like to see him upset. But if my dad isn't hiding any feelings, I'm sure it's more of a I'll be fine if I don't hear it or see it.

12-02-2008, 11:00 PM	#4
Cognitive_Canine Online Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Gender: Female Posts: 11,326	My parents will get over it. I am far more responsible and have a healthier relationship than either of them ever did in their teen years and twenties.

12-02-2008, 11:02 PM	#6
kuiks8 Offline Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Vancouver Gender: Female Posts: 3,271	i was married and my dad still thinks i am his little virgin

12-03-2008, 04:53 AM	#9
shikashika Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Gender: Female Age: 32 Posts: 5,299	I never had this discussion with my father...did any of you? They know, and they assume..i think.. but i don't talk about blowjobs and orgasms with my dad! He talks about wanting to have sex wiht my mum all the time though... and even though i used to think it was gross...I hope I'm still bonking away when i'm nearly 70!!