i think i've been sexual abused..and i have no idea what to do..someone help me..please..

LisS1001 · 12-02-2008, 07:44 PM

i was at my ex boyfriends house..we're stilll good friends and we were just joking around, playing video games. we've still had some sexual tensions between us and we'd hook up occasionally. but i told him that i didn't want to anymore. later that night he asked if he could play with my * * * * * and i told him i didn't want him too. he said stuff like "come on you know it's your favorite." "i know you like this" "why are you being so evil? you know i want you" "you're being so unfair" the next thing i new he had his hand on me.. i couldn't think, i could hardly keep myself from screamingg. i was yelling over and over for him to stop, but i couldnt find my voice. i don't know how long it went on for, but he never stopped, he just got harder and faster. it took all the strength i had to pull his hands off of me. i started crying and crying, i couldn't look at him, i couldn't think.. he said he was sorry a million times, and he drove me home immediately. now i'm bleeding because he pushed so hard, and the pain is bad, but not intollerable. i can't stop crying and i look like a zombie.

was i abused? he turned 18 last week..i don't know if i was or not..but i have no idea what i should do next.

somebody please help me..

x Lis

Lionel Hutz · 12-02-2008, 07:50 PM

No this is not okay! You need to speak with someone older, mom, dad, sister, or brother and then decide. If you were either of my sisters, hed be swimming with the fishes. Call the Police immediately in my honest opinion.

CAgirl · 12-02-2008, 07:52 PM

Yes, it was abuse. Talk to an adult. Stay away from this guy what he did to you isn't okay!

worriedgirl · 12-02-2008, 07:52 PM

oh, I am so sorry. Yes he did abuse you! he obviously raped you. you cried and told him no but he did it anyways. If you want you can totally turn him in and go to hospital and call the police. That decision is totally up to you! But even if you didn't never be friends with him again!

Lionel Hutz · 12-02-2008, 07:53 PM

If you let him get away with this he wins; and you can help the next girl he tries to be "in a relationship" with.

purpleduckie · 12-02-2008, 07:55 PM

what he did was completely wrong. you were sexually assaulted.

kuiks8 · 12-02-2008, 07:56 PM

I am so sorry you went through this, it is definitely not all right. You need to tell someone asap and you really need to find someone to talk to about the trauma you have experienced.

AnotherBrokenDoll · 12-02-2008, 07:56 PM

Its not okay. You told him you didn't want too. I think you should call a doctor just to get checked out and make sure your okay. You need to tell someone. You can't deal with this alone. Its important you address what happened or it could make a permanate mark emotionally.

I would stay away from this guy as much as you can. An apology won't take away your pain. He doesn't deserve your friendship.

LisS1001 · 12-02-2008, 07:57 PM

he didnt have sex with me or anything

he was just rubbing really really hard & it hurt a lot..he knows it effects me a lot, and he knows that i can't think when it's happening..and he knew i didn't want this.

kuiks8 · 12-02-2008, 07:58 PM

it doesn't matter if it was sex or just him touching you with you saying no...you said no that means he needed to stop and anything he did after that was not all right.

12-02-2008, 07:44 PM	#1
LisS1001 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Springfield, VA Gender: Female Posts: 33	i think i've been sexual abused..and i have no idea what to do..someone help me..please.. i was at my ex boyfriends house..we're stilll good friends and we were just joking around, playing video games. we've still had some sexual tensions between us and we'd hook up occasionally. but i told him that i didn't want to anymore. later that night he asked if he could play with my * * * * * and i told him i didn't want him too. he said stuff like "come on you know it's your favorite." "i know you like this" "why are you being so evil? you know i want you" "you're being so unfair" the next thing i new he had his hand on me.. i couldn't think, i could hardly keep myself from screamingg. i was yelling over and over for him to stop, but i couldnt find my voice. i don't know how long it went on for, but he never stopped, he just got harder and faster. it took all the strength i had to pull his hands off of me. i started crying and crying, i couldn't look at him, i couldn't think.. he said he was sorry a million times, and he drove me home immediately. now i'm bleeding because he pushed so hard, and the pain is bad, but not intollerable. i can't stop crying and i look like a zombie. was i abused? he turned 18 last week..i don't know if i was or not..but i have no idea what i should do next. somebody please help me.. x Lis __________________ "When my smile shines, you will know it's your time To creep out of my insides, pulling me away When my tears dry, don't think that i'm alright You can't take the memories, of this broken heart" -Lis Steen

12-02-2008, 07:50 PM	#2
Lionel Hutz Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: CrownTown Los Angeles Gender: Male Age: 100 Posts: 1,790	No this is not okay! You need to speak with someone older, mom, dad, sister, or brother and then decide. If you were either of my sisters, hed be swimming with the fishes. Call the Police immediately in my honest opinion. __________________ -KG "Wow! You guys look great. gets pervy thoughts out of head* LOL!"

12-02-2008, 07:52 PM	#3
CAgirl Offline Gold Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: SoCal Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 558	Yes, it was abuse. Talk to an adult. Stay away from this guy what he did to you isn't okay! __________________ "If we get through tomorrow, then we'll be fine...The worst is over for now. Take a breath, now let it out."

12-02-2008, 07:53 PM	#5
Lionel Hutz Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: CrownTown Los Angeles Gender: Male Age: 100 Posts: 1,790	If you let him get away with this he wins; and you can help the next girl he tries to be "in a relationship" with. __________________ -KG "Wow! You guys look great. gets pervy thoughts out of head* LOL!"

12-02-2008, 07:56 PM	#8
AnotherBrokenDoll Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: In a world you will never know of. Gender: Female Age: 18 Posts: 1,735	Its not okay. You told him you didn't want too. I think you should call a doctor just to get checked out and make sure your okay. You need to tell someone. You can't deal with this alone. Its important you address what happened or it could make a permanate mark emotionally. I would stay away from this guy as much as you can. An apology won't take away your pain. He doesn't deserve your friendship. __________________ There are days when i'm ok, And for a moment, For a moment I find hope. But there are days when i'm not ok, And i need your help, So i'm letting go. You should know, You're not on your own, These secrets are walls that keep us alone, I don't know when but i know now, Together we'll make it through somehow, Together we'll make it through somehow.

12-02-2008, 07:52 PM	#4
worriedgirl Offline Gold Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,080	oh, I am so sorry. Yes he did abuse you! he obviously raped you. you cried and told him no but he did it anyways. If you want you can totally turn him in and go to hospital and call the police. That decision is totally up to you! But even if you didn't never be friends with him again!

12-02-2008, 07:55 PM	#6
purpleduckie Offline Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 1,309	what he did was completely wrong. you were sexually assaulted.

12-02-2008, 07:56 PM	#7
kuiks8 Offline Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Vancouver Gender: Female Posts: 3,273	I am so sorry you went through this, it is definitely not all right. You need to tell someone asap and you really need to find someone to talk to about the trauma you have experienced.

12-02-2008, 07:57 PM	#9
LisS1001 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Springfield, VA Gender: Female Posts: 33	he didnt have sex with me or anything he was just rubbing really really hard & it hurt a lot..he knows it effects me a lot, and he knows that i can't think when it's happening..and he knew i didn't want this. __________________ "When my smile shines, you will know it's your time To creep out of my insides, pulling me away When my tears dry, don't think that i'm alright You can't take the memories, of this broken heart" -Lis Steen

12-02-2008, 07:58 PM	#10
kuiks8 Offline Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Vancouver Gender: Female Posts: 3,273	it doesn't matter if it was sex or just him touching you with you saying no...you said no that means he needed to stop and anything he did after that was not all right.