Feeling better after hearing few words

happy24 · 11-27-2008, 08:11 AM

Hi,

I have a kind of psychic friend at work.

I told her I was having a rough patch and was looking for some insight although a bit scared of what she might say.

She told me:

1. Everything will work out
2. My ex is my soulmate (she knows my ex, we never officially told workmates we were dating)
3. My ex is making a big mistake and will come back to me but she will be different
4. That I have to be patient, and will be distancing myself from my ex
5. If I choose to be with my ex, it will all work out
6. That I will meet someone new and I should spend time and have fun with her (she even gave a similar sounding name)
7. Other things about house, work, travel

I am always amazed at what this psychic friend says just from looking at you or touching you. If you have read my other posts then you will know I am having trouble moving on, and that I have met someone new.
I feel more at ease because I dont have to deny that my ex is my soulmate and that its ok to love her. Doesn't mean we will be together. I am also excited at the prospect of dating again.

Im worried about my ex - I hope she will not be too sad whatever this "big mistake is". If she does come back, I have no intentions of getting back with her if I am in a good relationship with someone else.

My plans:
1. Accept my ex is my soulmate and its ok to love her.
2. Be patient and distance myself from ex (NC is a bit hard when we work together, but I'm proud of myself for not texting her/calling her for a while and I havent had the urge to do so)
3. Have no expectations about ex returning (if she does, she's gonna have to do something special to get back into my life)
4. Free myself to enjoy flirting / dating again (gonna be very relaxed and happy tomoro night when I get to spend some time with the new girl)

Must admit that my ex came over to my house before to borrow something. When she hug me and kiss me almost on lips it felt amazing. Could have made me feel bit sad again to lose this, but I think i'm more accepting, I mean, she went to her new bf's place. She told me her mum still likes me the best.....but this is not the point.

Moral of this story:

EVERYTHING WILL BE OK IN THE END, BUT YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT.

DONT FORGET, BUT LET GO OF YOUR EX AND MOVE ON. BEST STARTING MOVE IF YOU STILL WANT YOUR EX BACK. MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT WILL HELP YOU FIND YOUR NORMAL HAPPY SELF AGAIN.

Thanks, just wanted to share this, maybe i'll still be sad and miss my ex at times (Xmas, New Yr's is coming up), but i'm feeling better at the moment. Looking forward to the future!!

MyheartorHis · 11-27-2008, 08:38 AM

I don't know if I believe psychics, but I do know you have the right thoughts on things.

It's always good to have plans like you do. I wish you the best!

happy24 · 11-27-2008, 01:44 PM

Thanks,

I find myself up at 5am again. It really was an awesome feeling to me when she hug and kiss me yesterday. How can I just stand here and watch her continue to hurt me, continue to ruin whatever chance we may have? There should be no way that I would take her back after what she has done although I accept we both have to change. I cant believe that I love her that much.

Anyway there is nothing I can do to change her mind - she needs to sort herself out. I need to work out how to distance myself from her (will see her at work this afternoon we work closely together).I have to remind myself of what the psychic friend said and why i felt better. Had a nice fun text conversation with the new girl last night. Looking forward to spending time with her tonight.

franfran · 11-27-2008, 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by happy24

EVERYTHING WILL BE OK IN THE END, BUT YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT.

DONT FORGET, BUT LET GO OF YOUR EX AND MOVE ON. BEST STARTING MOVE IF YOU STILL WANT YOUR EX BACK. MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT WILL HELP YOU FIND YOUR NORMAL HAPPY SELF AGAIN.

I think this is a very wise outlook on things. For some reason, it comforts me. Thanks happy

11-27-2008, 08:11 AM	#1
happy24 Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 39	Feeling better after hearing few words Hi, I have a kind of psychic friend at work. I told her I was having a rough patch and was looking for some insight although a bit scared of what she might say. She told me: 1. Everything will work out 2. My ex is my soulmate (she knows my ex, we never officially told workmates we were dating) 3. My ex is making a big mistake and will come back to me but she will be different 4. That I have to be patient, and will be distancing myself from my ex 5. If I choose to be with my ex, it will all work out 6. That I will meet someone new and I should spend time and have fun with her (she even gave a similar sounding name) 7. Other things about house, work, travel I am always amazed at what this psychic friend says just from looking at you or touching you. If you have read my other posts then you will know I am having trouble moving on, and that I have met someone new. I feel more at ease because I dont have to deny that my ex is my soulmate and that its ok to love her. Doesn't mean we will be together. I am also excited at the prospect of dating again. Im worried about my ex - I hope she will not be too sad whatever this "big mistake is". If she does come back, I have no intentions of getting back with her if I am in a good relationship with someone else. My plans: 1. Accept my ex is my soulmate and its ok to love her. 2. Be patient and distance myself from ex (NC is a bit hard when we work together, but I'm proud of myself for not texting her/calling her for a while and I havent had the urge to do so) 3. Have no expectations about ex returning (if she does, she's gonna have to do something special to get back into my life) 4. Free myself to enjoy flirting / dating again (gonna be very relaxed and happy tomoro night when I get to spend some time with the new girl) Must admit that my ex came over to my house before to borrow something. When she hug me and kiss me almost on lips it felt amazing. Could have made me feel bit sad again to lose this, but I think i'm more accepting, I mean, she went to her new bf's place. She told me her mum still likes me the best.....but this is not the point. Moral of this story: EVERYTHING WILL BE OK IN THE END, BUT YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT. DONT FORGET, BUT LET GO OF YOUR EX AND MOVE ON. BEST STARTING MOVE IF YOU STILL WANT YOUR EX BACK. MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT WILL HELP YOU FIND YOUR NORMAL HAPPY SELF AGAIN. Thanks, just wanted to share this, maybe i'll still be sad and miss my ex at times (Xmas, New Yr's is coming up), but i'm feeling better at the moment. Looking forward to the future!!

11-27-2008, 08:38 AM	#2
MyheartorHis Offline Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tennessee Gender: Female Posts: 478	I don't know if I believe psychics, but I do know you have the right thoughts on things. It's always good to have plans like you do. I wish you the best!

11-27-2008, 01:44 PM	#3
happy24 Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 39	Thanks, I find myself up at 5am again. It really was an awesome feeling to me when she hug and kiss me yesterday. How can I just stand here and watch her continue to hurt me, continue to ruin whatever chance we may have? There should be no way that I would take her back after what she has done although I accept we both have to change. I cant believe that I love her that much. Anyway there is nothing I can do to change her mind - she needs to sort herself out. I need to work out how to distance myself from her (will see her at work this afternoon we work closely together).I have to remind myself of what the psychic friend said and why i felt better. Had a nice fun text conversation with the new girl last night. Looking forward to spending time with her tonight.