How to leave your parents when they're semi-abusive

Nkaleidoscopic · 11-20-2008, 06:46 PM

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had to delete to be safe

waveseer · 11-20-2008, 06:50 PM

Find another place to stay and bring your things over little by little. Then one night move yourself and the rest out. Leaving a note is optional.

greywolf · 11-20-2008, 06:53 PM

Find an apartment and move your stuff little by little.

EDIT: just noticed that ready2heal already said that. hehehe

waveseer · 11-20-2008, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by greywolf

Find an apartment and move your stuff little by little.

EDIT: just noticed that ready2heal already said that. hehehe

Maybe both of us have prior experience in this area? lol

Nkaleidoscopic · 11-20-2008, 06:55 PM

Hmm, I never thought of it that way. I doubt they would notice. And I will have a place to move things to by January.

greywolf · 11-20-2008, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ready2heal

Maybe both of us have prior experience in this area? lol

hahahah no. My mom gave me a hard time about it though. She was always talking about 'when' I'd come back. hahahah

waveseer · 11-20-2008, 06:57 PM

Overbearing parents raise creative children.

Nkaleidoscopic · 11-20-2008, 07:20 PM

I think having overbearing parents has made me just very stressed and worrisome. Also I'm a huge liar. Always trying to make things seem okay, when things arent.

redhearts · 11-20-2008, 07:20 PM

Hey that is pretty interesting. I know this is a bit off topic, but how do you manage to run a successful business at 18?

I agree with the others, move things slowly, then the major stuff when their not home. Leaving a note is optional. Telling them where you live, DO NOT DO IT. Any who if you plan to get married you should go for a prenup.

Nkaleidoscopic · 11-20-2008, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by redhearts

Hey that is pretty interesting. I know this is a bit off topic, but how do you manage to run a successful business at 18?

I agree with the others, move things slowly, then the major stuff when their not home. Leaving a note is optional. Telling them where you live, DO NOT DO IT. Any who if you plan to get married you should go for a prenup.

I'll address the pre-nup issue first - we actually have the same income. He is older than me and he's already been to college, and he has a really good job. (I have no college degree) It's possible that my business will surpass his income but when I plan to expand it next year, extra help will be essential. More often than not, he will be the one helping me on the side of working full time. Taking all these things into calculation, I don't think a pre-nup will really do much but give each of us half our assets.

As for running a business, it's hard but I stay motivated, do alot of research, incorporate creative advertising. It's easier than you think to start a business, but it is hard to keep it afloat.

11-20-2008, 06:46 PM	#1
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11-20-2008, 06:50 PM	#2
waveseer Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In a world full of possibilities. Gender: Female Age: 46 Posts: 11,065	Find another place to stay and bring your things over little by little. Then one night move yourself and the rest out. Leaving a note is optional. __________________ Whoever dies with the most "happy" wins! ~ shuttlefish profile pic explained: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xl6yXBnLYYM and more: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKnw9TM_AAI and if you weren't convinced: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3fPtMuBtMs and if you're not sick yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTvUT_Hx4Dc to accept your partner: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgP57lJvWRw

11-20-2008, 06:53 PM	#3
greywolf Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Good question... Gender: Female Posts: 5,196	Find an apartment and move your stuff little by little. EDIT: just noticed that ready2heal already said that. hehehe __________________ "I'll never understand this until I get my penis." ~hersmudders "Give me life. Give me pain. Give me myself again." ~Tori Amos Pacquiao is gonna beat Cotto's ass!! w00t!

11-20-2008, 06:55 PM	#5
Nkaleidoscopic Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: US Posts: 413	Hmm, I never thought of it that way. I doubt they would notice. And I will have a place to move things to by January. __________________ eNA is my personal therapist.

11-20-2008, 06:57 PM	#7
waveseer Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In a world full of possibilities. Gender: Female Age: 46 Posts: 11,065	Overbearing parents raise creative children. __________________ Whoever dies with the most "happy" wins! ~ shuttlefish profile pic explained: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xl6yXBnLYYM and more: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKnw9TM_AAI and if you weren't convinced: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3fPtMuBtMs and if you're not sick yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTvUT_Hx4Dc to accept your partner: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgP57lJvWRw

11-20-2008, 07:20 PM	#8
Nkaleidoscopic Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: US Posts: 413	I think having overbearing parents has made me just very stressed and worrisome. Also I'm a huge liar. Always trying to make things seem okay, when things arent. __________________ eNA is my personal therapist.

11-20-2008, 07:20 PM	#9
redhearts Offline Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 4,623	Hey that is pretty interesting. I know this is a bit off topic, but how do you manage to run a successful business at 18? I agree with the others, move things slowly, then the major stuff when their not home. Leaving a note is optional. Telling them where you live, DO NOT DO IT. Any who if you plan to get married you should go for a prenup.