Exercises to help it not hurt?

Abbygail · 11-08-2008, 11:25 PM

I heard somewhere that there were some exercises you could do when your boyfriend is too big/you're small. Does anyone know anything about this and if not, know some things that could help? Thanks!

thejigsup · 11-08-2008, 11:34 PM

I've always been extremely "small" and never found an excercise that didn't make any man over 5" long and 1 1/2 inches in diameter fit without hurting me. I have become the queen of oral sex. I love intercourse with my current bf. He is not too big. I like 'em small.

**arwen** · 11-08-2008, 11:45 PM

I have had to get used to my bf, both for girth and length. I don't know if I am small. He's just very big. It really hurt in the beginning; what really helped was 1. lube 2. wide legs 3. me on top.

Abbygail · 11-09-2008, 12:19 AM

We've tried the things Arwen suggested. It still hurts. Albeit less so.

**arwen** · 11-09-2008, 12:20 AM

Well it takes time, I think for me it took really months before I didn't feel the initial 'pain' when he entered. How long have you been 'exercising'?

Abbygail · 11-09-2008, 12:30 AM

Well we haven't done it that often. It's an LDR so I want to say maybe twelve times? But if you meant the actual exercises I haven't tried any. I tried to look them up but couldn't find any info.

saltandvinegar · 11-09-2008, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Abbygail

I heard somewhere that there were some exercises you could do when your boyfriend is too big/you're small. Does anyone know anything about this and if not, know some things that could help? Thanks!

I've had the same problem. We spent weeks on it

but in the end it was a trip to the sex shop and a fluke purchase of a product called "Swiss Navy" SILICON LUBE.

It works like a dream. Its the silicon, Its SUPER SSSLIPPERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

None of the others work.

What it will do is allow him to stretch you out and it doesnt even hurt with this stuff, and then after a couple of times, you dont need it at all!

Abbygail · 11-10-2008, 03:15 AM

Anymore advice?

blue69 · 11-10-2008, 04:19 PM

Will 2nd the "Swiss Navy" brand....lol

Really there is no magic cure. There is a biological difference. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about his size. It is what it is.

Women's sizes do/can change. So from a size perspective it can accomodate more than you might think. Of course your body needs time to change/adapt. Length can be problematic... especially if he is fully thrusting. Positions that limit his thrust ability are generally advised. I think people covered some of those. You can look up Karma Sutra online to get some other ideas.

11-08-2008, 11:25 PM	#1
Abbygail Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 376	Exercises to help it not hurt? I heard somewhere that there were some exercises you could do when your boyfriend is too big/you're small. Does anyone know anything about this and if not, know some things that could help? Thanks!

11-08-2008, 11:45 PM	#3
arwen Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The Netherlands Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 5,396	I have had to get used to my bf, both for girth and length. I don't know if I am small. He's just very big. It really hurt in the beginning; what really helped was 1. lube 2. wide legs 3. me on top. __________________ You always* have a choice.* 11 February 2010: [Only registered and activated users can see links. ]* is due!* Please see the forum rules for posting on enotalone.com

11-09-2008, 12:20 AM	#5
arwen Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The Netherlands Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 5,396	Well it takes time, I think for me it took really months before I didn't feel the initial 'pain' when he entered. How long have you been 'exercising'? __________________ You always* have a choice.* 11 February 2010: [Only registered and activated users can see links. ]* is due!* Please see the forum rules for posting on enotalone.com

11-08-2008, 11:34 PM	#2
thejigsup Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Gender: Female Age: 53 Posts: 4,132	I've always been extremely "small" and never found an excercise that didn't make any man over 5" long and 1 1/2 inches in diameter fit without hurting me. I have become the queen of oral sex. I love intercourse with my current bf. He is not too big. I like 'em small.

11-09-2008, 12:19 AM	#4
Abbygail Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 376	We've tried the things Arwen suggested. It still hurts. Albeit less so.

11-09-2008, 12:30 AM	#6
Abbygail Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 376	Well we haven't done it that often. It's an LDR so I want to say maybe twelve times? But if you meant the actual exercises I haven't tried any. I tried to look them up but couldn't find any info.

11-10-2008, 03:15 AM	#8
Abbygail Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 376	Anymore advice?

11-10-2008, 04:19 PM	#9
blue69 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: United States Gender: Male Posts: 584	Will 2nd the "Swiss Navy" brand....lol Really there is no magic cure. There is a biological difference. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about his size. It is what it is. Women's sizes do/can change. So from a size perspective it can accomodate more than you might think. Of course your body needs time to change/adapt. Length can be problematic... especially if he is fully thrusting. Positions that limit his thrust ability are generally advised. I think people covered some of those. You can look up Karma Sutra online to get some other ideas.