I was doing so good.

christinesee · 10-14-2008, 10:31 AM

I just broke down and wrote x cyber guy...now I'm mad at myself for doing that. But It's to late now I already clicked send. It was just a real simple message oh I hope he replys. I just would love to know he is ok. I have moved on from the romantic feelings and even had a recent date.. so I was reaching out to him simply in a friendly manner. UGH. needed to vent.

metrogirl · 10-14-2008, 10:37 AM

Aren't you worried that he is going to think you are obessed?

christinesee · 10-14-2008, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by metrogirl

Aren't you worried that he is going to think you are obessed?

No because I have not been sending him repeated messages. The last one I sent was many months ago.

metrogirl · 10-14-2008, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by christinesee

No because I have not been sending him repeated messages. The last one I sent was many months ago.

Oh ok.........

veda999 · 10-14-2008, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by metrogirl

Oh ok.........

this is an example of how some people, especially men, pray on the feelings of women. They are predators in a way. It is sad that you still think about a person you never even met and that stopped contacting you. Makes me think this whole internet thing is not healthy.

stillkicking · 10-14-2008, 11:56 AM

Hi there, greetings from Mexico.
One of my ex´s emailed me to see how i was after 6 months of not hearing from him. From there, we started emailing each other and got back together. Sadly it only lasted a couple of months. Now (my actual ex boyfriend) broke up with me 2 weeks ago and he has been calling me and we saw each other twice. I have decided to stop seeing him as a friend status and now he starts forwarding jokes emails. What does this mean? Im still in his thoughts? or what? I do not want to be his friend ( too painful to be just friends), so i am trying NC at all from my side. So far its been 4 days since we last saw each other. Any feedback anyone?

christinesee · 10-14-2008, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by autofill

this is an example of how some people, especially men, pray on the feelings of women. They are predators in a way. It is sad that you still think about a person you never even met and that stopped contacting you. Makes me think this whole internet thing is not healthy.

I guess the reason I still think of him is because we did alot of writing.. it was months and months everday.. sometimes non stop. Hard to erase that from my mind especially when my work keeps me online throughout the day. I would agree that the internet can be unhealthy.

veda999 · 10-14-2008, 12:22 PM

seems I have the same deal. met a guy I knew a long time ago, we emailed for months, I met him, spent some time with him platonically, I was very attracted, I told him I thought he had romantic intentions, but he said he has an "interest" elsewhere, and that was 4 months ago, he never calls me, he emails me every day, and also forwards joke emails, and I saw him on match, so what is that?

christinesee · 10-14-2008, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by autofill

seems I have the same deal. met a guy I knew a long time ago, we emailed for months, I met him, spent some time with him platonically, I was very attracted, I told him I thought he had romantic intentions, but he said he has an "interest" elsewhere, and that was 4 months ago, he never calls me, he emails me every day, and also forwards joke emails, and I saw him on match, so what is that?

Sounds like a chat buddy to me. I mean at least he was upfront in telling you he had intrest else where.

veda999 · 10-14-2008, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by christinesee

Sounds like a chat buddy to me. I mean at least he was upfront in telling you he had intrest else where.

my point is, he referred to a specific person he was interested in, sees several times a year, and then I see his profile out there, if he has this interest, why is he looking elsewhere? he lied

10-14-2008, 10:31 AM	#1
christinesee Offline Member Join Date: May 2008 Gender: Female Posts: 231	I was doing so good. I just broke down and wrote x cyber guy...now I'm mad at myself for doing that. But It's to late now I already clicked send. It was just a real simple message oh I hope he replys. I just would love to know he is ok. I have moved on from the romantic feelings and even had a recent date.. so I was reaching out to him simply in a friendly manner. UGH. needed to vent. __________________ ~"Life is a long lesson in humility." ~

10-14-2008, 10:37 AM	#2
metrogirl Online Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SGV Gender: Female Age: 39 Posts: 4,686	Aren't you worried that he is going to think you are obessed? __________________ Whether one believes in a religion or not, there isn't anyone who doesn't appreciate kindness and compassion. Dalai Lama Any hope I had for my Seahawks flew out the window when I heard Lofa Tatupu will be out for the rest of the season. (sighs) They call me Ghettro.......Well Scorpion Fury does anyway. LOL

10-14-2008, 11:56 AM	#6
stillkicking Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Mexico Gender: Female Posts: 11	Hi there, greetings from Mexico. One of my ex´s emailed me to see how i was after 6 months of not hearing from him. From there, we started emailing each other and got back together. Sadly it only lasted a couple of months. Now (my actual ex boyfriend) broke up with me 2 weeks ago and he has been calling me and we saw each other twice. I have decided to stop seeing him as a friend status and now he starts forwarding jokes emails. What does this mean? Im still in his thoughts? or what? I do not want to be his friend ( too painful to be just friends), so i am trying NC at all from my side. So far its been 4 days since we last saw each other. Any feedback anyone?

10-14-2008, 12:22 PM	#8
veda999 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 113	seems I have the same deal. met a guy I knew a long time ago, we emailed for months, I met him, spent some time with him platonically, I was very attracted, I told him I thought he had romantic intentions, but he said he has an "interest" elsewhere, and that was 4 months ago, he never calls me, he emails me every day, and also forwards joke emails, and I saw him on match, so what is that?