I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year now. I love him so much and I know he really loves me too. However, there have been a few things I have wondered about. I am no where near ready to get married, but it is something that I definitely want to be someday. However, he has gone back and forth on this many times. Sometimes he says he thinks about marrying me and sometimes he says he never wants to get married. I have never brought up the subject of marriage, its always been him. Also, I really want to have kids someday, not anytime in the near future, but def. someday. Again, he says he thinks he never wants to have kids. However, when I told him I thought he'd be a good father he did seem to like that. That's not as big a deal as the marriage thing. I know its only been 1 year, and we are still in college, so there is no rush on my part. I don't even request his assurances of getting married. But when he says he's not sure if he EVER wants to get married without me even bringing it up, I get worried. Why stay in a relationship if nothing will ever come of it? I don't want to stay with someone for 10 years only to know marriage is never an option. Leaving him is not an option because we have a very good relationship and are both very much in love. But I guess I question myself: he's told me straight up he may never get married and doesn't want kids, so where is this going? And should I just enjoy the present and not worry about the future? When he goes back and forth I don't know, I always keep telling him not to worry about it and just enjoy our here and now. What do you all think?