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How Good Do Blowjobs Feel?


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How good do blowjobs feel? And is there such thing as a bad blowjob? (aside from her teeth on your penis) And what really makes it magical and extra good?

 

I wanna give my boyfriend the best blowjobs and right now i know i should get it really wet, deep throat it, lick under the shaft...so just some tips on what you guys like or what you ladies do! thanks!

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I agree with KISSKISS. I did it for the first time at 16. I have never regretted it! While some of my friends ended up pregnant as teens, my sex act of choice kept both my bf and I happy and kept me child-free. Plus, I love to do it! Still, all these years later, I still get excited when I do it.

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i think that if youre ready to do it then its your own decision, just make sure you feel totally comfortable and if you have any hesitations, wait.

 

i usually start of by kissing/sucking on my boyfriends neck since it gets him in the mood and he really enjoys it. after a little while, not too long because it will drive him crazy, remove his belt, pants, underwear slowly one article at a time. if you think you can unbutton his pants with your teeth, go for it! as you go, continuously move your hand around his package through his clothing. as each layer comes off, the anticipation will grow and it makes it that much more exciting. once hes bare, start off slow, dont dive in like a crazy person, you could scare it away lol. lick the shaft while firmly gripping it with your hands and slide them up and down slowly. every so often look up and glance at him and make eye contact, it'll drive him crazy. pay close attention to little signs that will let you know how youre doing, like if he moans or his breathing starts to get really heavy. also, if you really concentrate and pay close attention you can feel slight twitches and movements within his penis. as soon as hes fully erect and is really hard, you can really begin to do your job. slide your hand and your mouth in sync and when you go up, swirl your tongue around his head. vary the pressure and speed at which you move your hands and your mouth. try different things with your tongue. use one hand at the base of the shaft and try going as far down the shaft as you can with your mouth. use your hand to keep the rythym going while your mouth stimulates him orally. if you can, try to incorporate his testicles into the mix, but be gentle. try different things with your tongue, trace circles around his shaft with your tongue, or go up and down. the goal while giving oral is to experiment and vary your actions often, but always keep the rythym going. try deep throat if you want, but its not everyones cup of tea so to say. when hes about to climax, you can usually tell when his shaft begins to swell, speed up the pumping of your mouth and hands. this is the point that really matters, so dont give up or lose concentration. if you lose focus or accidently screw up the rythym. after hes done, give him a cool down. dont just drop it and leave him to his own devices. slowly and very gently massage him with your mouth, and help clean him up if there is any mess left over. afterwards, let him relax, maybe bring him a glass of water if he needs it, but dont bother him too much. give him time to enjoy himself

 

so

-keep a steadily increasing tempo with a firm grip

-NO TEETH. cover them with your lips, hide them, do whatever but im sure there is nothing more painful than to have someones teeth scraping against one of the most sensitive parts of your body.

-take off rings

-keep it wet

-BE ENTHUSIASTIC. remember, youre not doing this because you have to, youre doing it because you want to throughly please your man! give him all youve got!!

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...I do sometimes wonder if those under the age of consent (Since this is an american board am I right in thinking thats 18?) should be allowed to post in the Sex & Romance forum of ENA...

 

Assuming you are correct, how will you enforce that policy when most people do not even indicate their age in their profile

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Assuming you are correct, how will you enforce that policy when most people do not even indicate their age in their profile

 

When you register you have to put in a date of birth, and putting in an age of under 18 would lock off this section of the forum automatically. I've seen it done with other forums I'm a part of.

 

I agree it relies on honesty on the part of the registerie (is that even a word?) but it would be effective on the whole I think.

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As I see it what happens between 2 consenting people behind walls is none of the Government's business, and if they think you're safe driving a car at 16 sucking c*ck can't be that much more dangerous

 

Back to the OP's question:

 

The key to a good blowjob is timing, just like with sex. You want to keep things varied, but don't switch off so often that he can't find a rhythm. Oh, and keep your hand by the base of the shaft rather than by your mouth. And although porn isn't exactly a great reflection of what sex really is, it's a great way to see what kind of techniques are out there for different things.

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As I see it what happens between 2 consenting people behind walls is none of the Government's business, and if they think you're safe driving a car at 16 sucking c*ck can't be that much more dangerous

 

Back to the OP's question:

 

The key to a good blowjob is timing, just like with sex. You want to keep things varied, but don't switch off so often that he can't find a rhythm. Oh, and keep your hand by the base of the shaft rather than by your mouth. And although porn isn't exactly a great reflection of what sex really is, it's a great way to see what kind of techniques are out there for different things.

 

This is the whole reason for the age of consent though, you're not mature enough TO BE ABLE to consent, or to deal deal with the potential ramifications.

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This is the whole reason for the age of consent though, you're not mature enough TO BE ABLE to consent, or to deal deal with the potential ramifications.

 

 

Yes, and since they can't decided when a person is mature enough to be able to do so (cause, frankly, I know I was mature enough at 16 but there are plenty of 20 year olds who I wouldn't consider mature enough) they have to draw the line somewhere.

 

Although they are under the age of consent, I'd still rather they come to ENA for help than go it alone. Or god help them if they find some other sites on the internet for sex advice.....

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Yes, and since they can't decided when a person is mature enough to be able to do so (cause, frankly, I know I was mature enough at 16 but there are plenty of 20 year olds who I wouldn't consider mature enough) they have to draw the line somewhere.

 

Although they are under the age of consent, I'd still rather they come to ENA for help than go it alone. Or god help them if they find some other sites on the internet for sex advice.....

 

And that, in itself, is the reason why they are allowed to post here. I'm glad someone can see what I'm trying to say though.

 

I just see the number of young people (sub-16) posting in these forums as a worrying indication of the state of morals and promiscuity in todays society.

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in case you get less answers than expected, probably due to people doubting if it's legal to advice you about it, maybe search around b/c guess same kind of questions have been asked earlier. even if you decide to wait I agree there's nothing wrong with knowing more about the penis and having sex.

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