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    Handjob vs. Blowjob?

    My boyfriend and I have been getting more intimate with each other in the past month and i've only been giving him handjobs because i don't really know what feels better for him. Personally, I'm kind of getting bored of the handjob ordeal and would like to go down on him, the idea of it just turns me on so much, but just from guy's or girl's with experience, do guys prefer getting blowjobs or handjobs? what's the difference in how it feels? the only thing i'm afraid of is him ejaculating in my mouth/face because he never tells me when he's going to when i give him a handjob, i mean i can KINDA tell because he pulls me in close and gets tense, breathes harder all that...so just need opinion on handjob vs. blowjob

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    i love giving men blow jobs, it feels better for them and i enjoy swallowing

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    I've never had a guy NOt like a blowjob! try and and see if he complains! I don't think he'll push you away!

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    go down on him. act like it's just gonna be another hand job. surprise him. he won't complain.
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    i think most guys would agree that blowjobs feel better, if you want to give him one, i'm sure he'd be more than happy
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    Blowjobs feel much better than handjobs. For me the main thing that makes blowjobs so much better is the warmth.

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    can he not tell when he is cumming?
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    There is no rule about one or the other. You can use your hands and mouth and he will NOT push you away. As far as him not telling you when he is about to cum, just ask him to let you know so you can be ready for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by morgane View Post
    i love giving men blow jobs, it feels better for them and i enjoy swallowing
    you are my hero! Great Job! lol. There needs to be more women like you in this world! lol.

    I am a very lucky guy in that area myself so I would agree... Blowjobs are far more of a turn on! Woot Woot!
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    Also, you don't want him to cum in your mouth? Why not? I agree with morgane. I like it.
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